Girls who broke your heart thread

Yeah you don"t seem to be capable of understanding the situation, if you don"t at this point you should stop trying. I will give you one more hint, the situation with his GF is only tangentially related to why hes being burned in effigy.

Gryeyes said:

Yeah you don"t seem to be capable of understanding the situation, if you don"t at this point you should stop trying. I will give you one more hint, the situation with his GF is only tangentially related to why hes being burned in effigy.

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He doesn"t get it because he won"t bite the hand that feeds him.

May need to make this an official SS rule.

#63: If you aren"t getting the right responses don"t get defensive. Apologize then bow out. Just choke up those negative internets and move on.

For example, if you get caught making a repost thread the proper response is "Shit, sorry. I fail hard at searching. Rickshaw this shit." not "Fuck you virgin cocksuckers, I"m too busy getting mad pussy to check every post like you lifeless faggots."

Or in Dabamf"s case it should have been, "My bad, not what I meant. Maybe if she ~is~ living with someone he"s got gamecube and some natty ice and we can be friends and tag team her. I just meant to share another crazian story."

Though I will admit, the "I AM A MAD PUSSY SLAYER BIT" made me giggle. Trainwrecks are so much more entertaining.

Tarrant220 said:

He was defensive, maybe overly so, but he did have like 4 people jumping on him, can"t really blame him for that.

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You must be new around here.

So, I re-read the trainwreck from start to finish to get a better perspective of what actually made this thread go to shit. Zehn"s absolutely right, I shoulda taken the criticism in stride and laughed about it. As I go back, the only ones who were jumping down my throat from the beginning are thecutlery, chu, gryeyes, and ark. And well, thecutlery is still pissed because I called his boring 18 year old marriage boring, chu just wants to come out yelling HEY I FUCK GUYS (and now is also apparently a manslut) at any opportunity, this Gryeyes clown, who knows where the fuck he came from, and ark is just an ultimate internet badass that could bench press this entire forum. The others only really came out after I got all butthurt.

So I concede that I lose at internet arguing.

yeah yeah we"re all dumb and you"re amazing. Enjoy your sloppy seconds; I hear Korean boy cum makes excellent lube.

Who listens to TheCutlery anyway? Seriously, the guy had one girlfriend and then he fucking marries her. The guy has ZERO EXPERIENCE DATING. I just read his posts and laugh at his "hai guys my life is so much better than yours and eher"s why..." posts that all sound exactly the same as the last post he made.

Shanter said:

Who listens to TheCutlery anyway? Seriously, the guy had one girlfriend and then he fucking marries her. The guy has ZERO EXPERIENCE DATING. I just read his posts and laugh at his "hai guys my life is so much better than yours and eher"s why..." posts that all sound exactly the same as the last post he made.

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Dude thats NPH in the background!

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I know this is the "girls who broke your heart thread" .. but you"d be surprised how much help a quick solo run can do! A good 15 minutes afterwards.. you just don"t give a shit! .. then you do ... so just keep jerkin.

Dabamf said:

So, I re-read the trainwreck from start to finish to get a better perspective of what actually made this thread go to shit. Zehn"s absolutely right, I shoulda taken the criticism in stride and laughed about it. As I go back, the only ones who were jumping down my throat from the beginning are thecutlery, chu, gryeyes, and ark. And well, thecutlery is still pissed because I called his boring 18 year old marriage boring, chu just wants to come out yelling HEY I FUCK GUYS (and now is also apparently a manslut) at any opportunity, this Gryeyes clown, who knows where the fuck he came from, and ark is just an ultimate internet badass that could bench press this entire forum. The others only really came out after I got all butthurt.

So I concede that I lose at internet arguing.

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Lmao, this is like "I"m sorry I killed your daughter while I was drunk driving but that bitch was ugly anyway".

Thanks for the shout out.

I wasn"t attacking you until you went insane.

I recently started dating this girl I met online. (pof I believe)

At first I was very attentive, but once we started hanging out, she developed feelings much faster than I did. I noticed it was bugging her because she would say things, things like "you just act like you don"t give a shit, when actually you do... awwww". This is all in jest, sure, but it stems from her feelings. She says it doesn"t bother her, but we all know women are excellent liars.

I thought about it today, and I considered that I may very well be an inattentive asshole. We have fun when we"re together, but I just don"t think about her when she isn"t with me. We never went through that lust / can"t be apart phase. I"ve always gone through that with new girls. I could totally understand feeling this way after it wore off and we both really knew each other, but it"s a strong case of meh.

I just got off the phone with her, she cried, and I didn"t say anything with any finality. I"m pretty sure I"ve figured out now, hours after the call, that I am just not into her. I"m feeling guilty about it, because I know she really likes me. Any of you ever have this experience with a girl? I definitely won"t continue stringing her along.

I"m not a dick, I"ve just never run into something like this. It"s always: into her / not

Edit: I"m going to tell her tomorrow that I don"t feel a connection etc. I just re-read my post and it screams "not into her at all". I think I was just hoping a connection would form, but it didn"t.

You can like a chick but just not be intrigued by her. It"s kinda the male equivalent of friend-zoning or the place-holder boyfriend, only since you"re a guy there"s sex involved regardless, so it"s less cut and dry. No worries, just be honest, and as long as you do that you have nothing to be guilty about. Doesn"t mean you still can"t bone if she"s down with it after hearing the truth.

Happened to me a lot a few years back. Went through a string of half a dozen girls I dated, either for a few weeks or a couple for 3+ months, and didn"t really have a connection with any of them. I felt the same way as you. With the couple that went for a few months, I liked them on a personal level and got along with them great, but something was just missing. And of course that whole reverse psychology aspect of dating plays a big part. The more they like you and show it, the less attracted you are, and they work that much harder to seek your approval, and it just kind of turns in to a vicious cycle. Karma"s a bitch and all that, so with Anne and Chuck I ended up on the shitty end of that stick.

In both cases when I broke up with them I was flat out honest with them, that there was something missing and that I didn"t want to string them along any further, and that I"d only let things get as far as they did because I wanted to give them an honest shot and see if things could develop further. One of them I"m still quite good friends with to this day, while the other I haven"t seen since we had a post break-up hookup on my birthday. Ran in to her at a bar celebrating my birthday, ended up back at my place, drove her to her car in the morning and said "cya around" when she got out. Our mutual friends told me she was really hurt because she thought that we were getting back together. I"m not sure why the fuck she expected anything, coming home with me when I"m lit up on my birthday, but I would imagine if the positions were reversed I"d have probably felt somewhat the same, so I felt bad about it. But calling to apologize or try to make her feel better would just have sent the wrong message anyway, so I let it lie. She had a fairly strong element of the crazy in her, so that didn"t help either.

Shit happens, and unfortunately most people can"t pick and choose who they fall for. The only thing you can do is try to treat them with respect, if they deserve it anyway. You only make things worse and/or lead them on by trying to spare their feelings.

TheCutlery said:

And for the record, no, I had 3 serious girlfriends and spent a few months dating....just long enough to know that it"s a fucking rollercoaster of bullshit. Why waste the fucking time?
Good luck in your quest.

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I played super mario world, I quit after completing level 1 but the whole rest of the game is just jumping and running forward right?

Trust me - I know all about super mario world.

Regret is the thing that is beating me up the most right now. I regret doing things like I did with my ex.

But, that same feeling of regret is what is helping me (and making me) be extra careful with how I handle things with Diane.

Anyways, I just wanted to mention that regret is a bitch... It has been kicking my ass the last week or so. Once this feeling fades, i will be fine. I know I will. All other feelings are gone. I care for her as the mother of my son and thats it.