tell your friend shit or get off the pot. My guy friends and I have an agreement that if you aren"t man enough to make the move, you aren"t really that interested and relinquish any kind of "dibs" or what have you.
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I don"t agree with this, you should at least confront your friend if you think there"s mutual interest in someone. IMO it"s a real douche move not to.Jorren said:
He"s already indicated his interest. She"s fair game. You will or course run the risk of damaging or ruining your friendship, but that"s a decision like any other.
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It"s even rarer when you know that she is not interested in them as a fantasy geek, but more interested by their work and the whole myths and universes they created.Jorren said:
Well, thanks for the advice guys. I"ll see how it goes next time I see her (she"s now on holidays, so we"ll see her more often at parties), and if it goes well I"ll make a move or at least give a final warning to my friend.
And to thank you, pic. Yup, that"s her.
DAYUMMMMMMMMMMMMM she be hot son. Before you mount her yell out en guard.
En garde is a call made by the referee of a bout to get into fighting stance before combat. en garde is french for on guard.
En garde is a call made by the referee of a bout to get into fucking stance before sex. en garde is french for lets fuck.
En garde is a call made by the referee of a bout to get into fighting stance before combat. en garde is french for on guard.
En garde is a call made by the referee of a bout to get into fucking stance before sex. en garde is french for lets fuck.
PS makes me think of this:
YouTube - 17 Again restaurant scene
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YouTube - 17 Again restaurant scene
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YouTube - 17 again - cloak of invisibility scene
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Malkav
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Well, I know what "En garde" means, I"m french after all, and so is she.Jimmy Carter wuwu said:
Anyway, a girl like that is just too much to not at least try, and it just feels shitty not to be able to try anything because of a friend. But anyway we"ll see. Can"t pass up on an occasion like this one.
Yeah, if he is a real bro he will get over this. This is one of those, do it first, ask for forgiveness later situations we got here.
Friends > PussyMalkav said:
It was always like that and will always be that way. Over time that mindset also gets you more pussy. Clearly best course of action
Your case is more difficult of course. You need some beers or bottle of whiskey, sit down and talk bout your friendship, make sure there is no hard feelings. Maybe mention that he is prolly in her friend zone. Then go for her.
Both going for her hard or maybe even drama puts you both in a bad position. You are supposed to be friends but act like this? => you lose alot of points
Sounds like he"s had plenty of opportunity and hasn"t seized any of it. As soon as you indicated interest and said you"d give him time he should"ve asked her out the next day or close to it. He didn"t, his loss. Ask her out, she"s fucking hot.Malkav said:
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Be blunt with your friend. Tell him you think he"s in the friends zone and that you"ve got a real shot with her, but still you"ll yield to himif he makes his move within [short period of time you decide]. If not, tell him you"re going to do it because dibs are irrelevant if you don"t actually capitalize on being first to bat.
Good friends will yield to their friends if they show first interest, but good friends will also recognize when they"re being a pussy and not get upset when their buddy moves in on a girl they didn"t have the balls to ask out.
Good friends will yield to their friends if they show first interest, but good friends will also recognize when they"re being a pussy and not get upset when their buddy moves in on a girl they didn"t have the balls to ask out.
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Yeah, I"ll be waiting a few more days and if he doesn"t make a move I"ll be straight with him.
I just told him about it this afternoon, so I have to give him a little leeway to work with first.
But he"ll really have to move his ass to make his own opportunity, as the few next time we"re supposed to see her will be this week-end. We"re throwing a little night out as an alibi for him to avoid a party organized by his sister (yeah, here again he acts a bit like a pussy, he doesn"t want to go but he wants an excuse to say no to his sister). I was the one who suggested this and he told me this afternoon he wants to invite her too. So he"d better try and see her before we all meet to take his chances.
I can still lay low for this week-end, but after that I swear that if I see her again without being able to make a move it will drive me crazy.
I just told him about it this afternoon, so I have to give him a little leeway to work with first.
But he"ll really have to move his ass to make his own opportunity, as the few next time we"re supposed to see her will be this week-end. We"re throwing a little night out as an alibi for him to avoid a party organized by his sister (yeah, here again he acts a bit like a pussy, he doesn"t want to go but he wants an excuse to say no to his sister). I was the one who suggested this and he told me this afternoon he wants to invite her too. So he"d better try and see her before we all meet to take his chances.
I can still lay low for this week-end, but after that I swear that if I see her again without being able to make a move it will drive me crazy.