Good for you dude.STFU said:Final Update:Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.
shit no wonder I couldn"t findFoghornDeadhorn said:*clever
Just try and remember it"s not about you. Relationships from that age almost never work out. People change, people get the feeling they"re "missing something," and before even that, people choose to make relationships serious that never had the elements to be.STFU said:Final Update:Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.
Do not talk to her. Telling you this because she is most likely going to call you soon. Remember, going there was a means to an end for her. Not an end in and of itself. She still wants something from you, don"t give it to her. (Even if nothing "happened".)STFU said:Final Update:Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.
You did the right thing, it"s going to be hard soon to keep believing that, but you did. Chances are high she"s going to pull some shenanigans to get you back, just ignore her. Don"t answer, delete her number, etc.STFU said:Final Update:Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.
You tell her it"s over and be calm, don"t call names - NOTHING. Tell her you tried but don"t see a future with her. Tell her to discontinue all contact with you. Make it final, if you have anything of hers or she of yours, too bad. Get rid of it. You have zero reason to talk to her.Final Update: Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.
Alright, step 1. When she calls you back (and she will) don"t answer...ever. Let it go to voice-mail or whatever for at least a week.STFU said:Final Update:Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.
This. Next week or two are going to probably suck. Throw yourself into work/study or whatever. Go out, get drunk but leave the phone at home or have someone hold onto it until you are sober (post hangover). Try and have some fun!Ravvenn said:You tell her it"s over and be calm, don"t call names - NOTHING. Tell her you tried but don"t see a future with her. Tell her to discontinue all contact with you. Make it final, if you have anything of hers or she of yours, too bad. Get rid of it. You have zero reason to talk to her.
You will eventually go through a million phases so keep busy. Don"t call wanting a reason "Why" - The reason is she"s an immature, selfish, attention whoring cunt.
Don"t send passive aggressive guilt texts. Don"t cling on the fact she may have done this to get your attention (or think it"s because she loves you). She"s emotionally unstable, she"s not girlfriend material, and she will continuously put you through this. She wants your attention, not you.
Stay strong, if you feel like you HAVE to talk to her do this; write her a letter and never give it to her. It"s an easy way to dispose of the thoughts in your head and can ease the stress you"re having, too.
If your phone is capable of it, block her number to make things easier. Don"t call her friends either!
Truly, and it"s not like he"s going to listen if the bitch changes her mind anyway.Sutekh said:^ The only thing you should take from this is don"t answer her calls, everything else you can ignore.
Waaayyy too much effort in to a bitch you shouldn"t even care about anymore.
Sutekh said:^ The only thing you should take from this is don"t answer her calls, everything else you can ignore.
Waaayyy too much effort in to a bitch you shouldn"t even care about anymore.
double truePicasso said:STFU, don"t engage her under any circumstances
Like everyone else is saying, definitely this. I"m also not a fan of the whole having a female friend answer+giggle etc. There"s no need to stoop to her level or give her extra ammunition to talk shit about you. Just cut the chord, avoid thinking about all of this as much as possible. In a couple months you can look back with a much more subjective eye and see what there is to learn from the experiencePicasso said:Truly, and it"s not like he"s going to listen if the bitch changes her mind anyway.
Here"s the totality of what needs to be said:
STFU, don"t engage her under any circumstances.
Seriously. Subterfuge is not a man"s game to play with women.ToeMissile said:Like everyone else is saying, definitely this. I"m also not a fan of the whole having a female friend answer+giggle etc. There"s no need to stoop to her level or give her extra ammunition to talk shit about you. Just cut the chord, avoid thinking about all of this as much as possible. In a couple months you can look back with a much more subjective eye and see what there is to learn from the experience
lolSTFU said:Final Update:Broke up. Not only did she go, but she"s still there right now.
This is so difficult. I don"t even know how to break up with someone.