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Wait, this is chick after crazy 2nd ex wife?Tarrant220 said:I got seasons 1 and 2 of Castle and a German Chocolate Cake, shit just got serious.
Probably!Gryeyes said:Are you 15? Its your fucking girlfriend, you have entered a committed relationship with her, its fucking Valentines day. Are you as awkward to women in real life as your internet posting implies?
Is this your main reasoning for your answer? In case it is, I remember him talking about this girl in fairly high regard. If you"re being general or hyperbolic though, then...whatever.Whores don"t become non-whores overnight.
I"m talking about him.projectoffset said:Is this your main reasoning for your answer? In case it is, I remember him talking about this girl in fairly high regard. If you"re being general or hyperbolic though, then...whatever.
Ah right...that makes sense.FoghornDeadhorn said:I"m talking about him.
I"ll...TAKE the CASE!Tenks said:I think Eomer should fly to Japan and get her a kimono
I have some experience with this, and I sent you a PM.Saidin said:Ok so I have a bit of a dilemma. I"ve been dating this chick for 3 1/2 months now and she is still just as fun to be around now as she was the first day I met her. The thing is though, I"ll be deploying around our 6-7 month mark and I have no idea what to do. I generally don"t listen to advice from the guys I work with because they are fucking retards, so hopefully some of you can give me some advice. I had that talk with my girlfriend last week and the options I could think of are A. We stick together for the deployment, B. We break up for good, C. We break up for the deployment and I come home and we could give it another shot...
If I were to stick together with her I run into the fact that the Army has a 90% divorce rate. I know a lot of people that get divorces while deployed because their spouse needs some male attention and cheats on him. The same thing applies to girlfriends too obviously.Though it"s also kind of selfish of me to ask her to stay with me when she could easily find someone that might be better for her during that 9-12 months of me being gone.
I asked her to give me a no shit answer after my month long training in March because it"ll give us both a taste of what the deployment will be like for both of us.
Anyone have an experience with this ?
I dont have a 2nd crazy ex wife, just 1 bitch ex wife.TheCutlery said:Wait, this is chick after crazy 2nd ex wife?
Surly? Haha was that on purpose?Tarrant220 said:I dont have a 2nd crazy ex wife, just 1 bitch ex wife.
My current wife and I have been working things out slowly but surly.
The 90% figure is an exaggeration. It is higher in the military than the civilian world, and understably so when you are literally gone for over half your time in the military (And not just deployments, but training exercises and schools that take you away from the house as well).Schezanna said:Also, don"t get married until after you"re out of the army whatever route you choose. 90% divorce rate should have told you that already, but it never hurts to repeat it.
LoL no, but it is as fitting a word as any other at times.Jorren said:Surly? Haha was that on purpose?
I disagree somewhat. If she cheats while he"s overseas then I would argue he does in fact lose something. Unless he"s a particularly rare individual mentally I would argue that being cheated on will leave its mark on your psyche to some degree. It could cause trust issues down the road in a future relationship with someone else, or create jealousy issues.Praxis said:I have some experience with this, and I sent you a PM.
But basically, don"t overthink it. Don"t dump her on what "might" happen. Shit, we"d all end up doing nothing cause it could always go wrong.
Simply enough, if you want to date the girl and like her enough that when you come home you"d still like to date her. Try.
If she actually wants to try and stick with you through the deployment as well, go for it.
If it all goes tits up while you"re overseas, well. As long as you weren"t stupid and gave her the keys to your house/car/bank account, no big loss. You"re not really going to be out on the town looking to pick up a new girlfriend while you"re deployed anyway.
So, don"t overthink it. If it works out and you all stick together, great. If it doesn"t and she leaves you for someone else, don"t really sweat that either, cause all that means is you come home and have to find another girlfriend. If you all split up you"d have to do that anyway, and it keeps you from wondering "what if". Besides, if she fucks some other guy while you"re gone, he just picked up a cheating whore and you"ve lost nothing.
Right it works both ways. Which is why in the end, unless you both are really in love, it"s probably better to break things off.FoghornDeadhorn said:Pretty good odds unless he"s in a line unit he"ll have opportunity to cheat, himself.
Reminds me of the time retard 01 in my detachment banged amarriedwoman that was in our detachment. What an epic shit storm that would of been if it had come to light. God damn women in the military are filthy whores.FoghornDeadhorn said:Pretty good odds unless he"s in a line unit he"ll have opportunity to cheat, himself.