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Maybe she has high standards, "give me cock, or give me death"? "Cock or bust"? Hmm.Rabkorik said:You should have told the guy to buy a strap-on and do it himself.
Maybe she has high standards, "give me cock, or give me death"? "Cock or bust"? Hmm.Rabkorik said:You should have told the guy to buy a strap-on and do it himself.
I love that bit in Californication where Hank explains one of those to the lawyer dude.PigBenis said:I have a possible solution here, bros.
This is in fact a violation of the brocode, an egregious one at that. It would end my friendship with someone for sure. Someone whose willing to get grimy over pussy will get grimy over anything.Malkav said:Haha, funny you"re mentioning the BROCODE here. Fact of the matter, they started dating just a few week after we broke up, and I was not over it yet. I"d always considered him a very good friend, and someone i could trust. Well, when they started dating, I kinda took it like he broke the brocode, and didn"t talk to them for months.
Dated her for like four months. Not that long, but well, I was really into her.ToeMissile said:He didn"t mention how long they had been together.. or did I miss it? Definitely suspect, but it doesn"t seem like we have all the specifics.
Eomer said:I tend to agree. As a matter of policy it"s pretty much never a good idea to date a friend"s ex, unless he expressly tells you it"s cool. And even then, that"s putting him in a tough situation if he wasn"t the one who ended it.
Well, like I said, I burned bridges with them and a lot of other people for months after that.PigBenis said:For your dude to start dating her weeks after you guys broke up it sounds like he was doing exactly what you were doing right now. Hell I wouldn"t be surprised if she cheated on you with him. You could be a total prick and take her back and then ditch dude. I certainly wouldn"t trust her for shit though.
Oh, come on now. Angry much? Who was never uneasy and/or a bit nostalgic when seeing again exs that mattered?Shanter said:You don"t date a friends ex, especially without asking said bro if it alright to move in. Malkav is probably a spineless dickwad who can"t stand up for himself.
Good god, I"m far over that "mourning" shit right now.Shanter said:Taking the high road leaves you single and mourning the relationship you had with her. Sounds like a great plan.
I feel for you on that one. I really think the hardest part is learning about it from someone else. You just end up like "WHAT THE FUCKING HELL?". I still remember hearing about them while I was in a half-depressed drunken stupor, and that was a heavy blow.sl4ck3r said:I"m going through a similar situation with a recent ex trying to hook up and date my good friend(s) to get under my skin since we broke up about 2 weeks ago. It becomes shitty because the one she"s been trying to date hasn"t been with a woman in years and is desperate for any attention. The only redeeming part of the friendship right now is that he had the balls to tell me what was going on, but I already heard about it from another friend - which was a low blow in itself. So as much as I hate to say it, I might have to reevaluate my good friends since they are obviously too desperate to be close to a woman than a decades worth of friendship and being best buds.
I agree with you on that one Erronius.Erronius said:While I generally support the brocode (I myself wouldn"t have done something like this without at least talking to a friend about it first), I"ve always been hesitant to throw out a friendship wholesale over a chick.ESPECIALLYif you broke up with her, fuck it, it wasn"t like she was cheating on you with your buddy and broke up with you because she was finally ready to make the swap over to your best friend or something. If you broke up with her, then you shouldn"t have some overwhelming amount of heartbreak over it, otherwise why would you have broken up with her in the first fucking place? If that"s the case, remember that sometimes you have to be a friend, you can"t just sit there and snipe at everyone around you for every little faux pas you can catch them on. Fucking go out with your friend, give him your blessing, warn him about her faults ("she likes to play schei?e games, watch out bro") and try to have a clear conscience about it.
It"s different when she breaks up with you and immediately jumps to a friend (you can sit there wondering if she was playing you and cheating on you behind your back before the breakup), but still, I wouldn"t go 86"ing friends on that alone unless they already had done some other sketchy shit. I don"t want to sound like a dick here and point the finger at people for being insecure about this kind of thing, but you can either get over it and give your friend a high-five and tell them to tear that shit up, or you can sit at home #foreveralone silently /raging over how one of your friends is tapping that ass.
And don"t get me wrong, I"ve been there before, it"s happened to me and I basically lashed out at everyone involved and sank friendships over it, but in the end it wasn"t even close to being worth it. Especially since the parties involved got together, dated for a while, and then broke up themselves. I"ve never had a situation where an ex ended up in a long-term relationship with a friend, but in that case, I"d think it would be better to man up, stop holding a grudge, and move the fuck on.
If you"re uncomfortable around an ex, then get your own and take that emotion out on your new fling (grudgefuck the bejeesus out of her, and you"ll feel a million times better). That"s 100 times better than stumping around bitter and jaded for months or years until all of your friends start thinking that you"ve got issues and start avoiding you wholesale. That, or simply tell your friend that you feel uncomfortable around your ex but tell him that it"s nothing personal.
Of course I"m saying this as if there was no cheating going on, that changes everything in my book and I don"t put up with that shit (and I"d never cheat on a buddy with his woman either). This is just my 2cents fwiw, I know others will absolutely disagree but /shrug.
Wait, you wear stockings?Ser Kegkilla said:There art many worms posing as men within this thread. Relations between a man and woman are a sacred thing, yet many here choose to regard them as much as the mud on your stockings.