How many chances do you have to give someone for it to not be the pussy way out?AlexTheDictator said:Pussy way out.
The whole note thing rubs me the wrong way. The fact the he"s just JaRule"ing the country with no personal interaction in the process. I"m not in the situation and she sounds crazy as fuck so this might be the most "effective" way to break it off, but I think one should man up before just up and leaving the country with only a note to leave for it.TheCutlery said:How many chances do you have to give someone for it to not be the pussy way out?
If she"s pitching a fit because you won"t use a condom, is anti-abortion, not on birth control, and you aren"t ready to have a kid, then you need to get as far away from that one as possible. Not sure what game she"s running but it sounds like she might be trying to trap you. I have no idea why a chick would lose her shit about a dude wearing a condom, unless it was because: a.) she wants to get knocked up b.) she"s super religious and doesn"t believe in any form of contraception c.) she"s sensitive because she thinks you"re wearing a condom because she thinks that you might suspect she has a STD or d.) you started using condoms after never using them before and haven"t explained why.McCheese said:This thread has been pretty dry of drama lately, so I"ll post an update on my situation. Fast forward for TLDR version.
Full version:Last night she wanted me to have sex without a condom, and I explained to her that while I love her, I don"t think either of us is ready to risk involving a kid (especially since she is anti abortion, although I didn"t say that to her). She got incredibly angry about this and I tried to just let it slide like some people advised here, but her anger kept building and building, until it exploded into a full blown crying fit/panic attack. I ended up comforting her until about 5 in the morning to keep her from getting to the point where an ambulance was needed, and got a total of an hour and a half of sleep before work.
After she left for work I got on the pc and bought a one-way ticket back to the States, and wrote a long, detailed letter that basically reiterates everything she and I talked about the past 2 months, and explains why I just can"t stay in such an unhealthy environment. I also left her a nice chunk of cash to help with rent and (hopefully) a train ticket back to her family"s city, as I think that would be best for her.
She sent me a text message earlier today saying she was in the hospital. I think it was meant to make me feel guilty, but all I could think was that It"s your own fault you got so upset over something so stupid that you had a panic attack. I"m not to blame at all. I"m actually glad she was in the hospital, and hope she is still there, because at least there I know she"ll be safe from herself and taken care of.
Anyway, I can"t take this roller coaster ride anymore, so here I am in the airport (free wifi, cool) waiting for my flight.
TLDR: I should have left earlier, but I"m getting out now without any permanent damage and valuable lessons learned.
Yeah, the back story here is she pulls this shit twice a week. He"s not pussing out on anything, and he laid out the situation for her once already. He gave her the one chance, I don"t fault him at all for following through this time.Eomer said:You don"t need to read any backstory. You just need to know that his woman was fucking insane.
Yeah I just went back and read his posts, this was too intriguing. I really think it"s very possible that she may have poisoned him.Eomer said:I think he said he lives in Kazakhstan, he"s from the US, and she"s Russian. Which is why most of us told him to get a food taster last time he posted, or to develop a resistance to polonium.
Well it will certainly be nice once he moves to a country with better hookers.Eomer said:I think he said he lives in Kazakhstan, he"s from the US, and she"s Russian. Which is why most of us told him to get a food taster last time he posted, or to develop a resistance to polonium.
What was the man"s way out? Killing her? He left her cash, did what he could, I don"t see anything wrong with that.AlexTheDictator said:Pussy way out.
He wouldn"t fuck her in the pussy without a jimmy on and the relationship ended because of it. "The pussy way out".The Ancient said:What was the man"s way out? Killing her? He left her cash, did what he could, I don"t see anything wrong with that.
Ah, you mean the classy way out.Grumpus said:Should have taken the ass way out and said "no condom? no problem but its going in you butt"
No this is the classy way out.Aamina said:Ah, you mean the classy way out.
I think that joke would be more funny if I didn"t end up having a ton of sex.Grumpus said:No this is the classy way out.