It appears you like to RP and you like it enough that you take it somewhat seriously. If that's the case, why not try for a WL server like NoPixel or FamilyRP? Any public server is going to be a shit show and from what I've been told and heard from numerous streamers most of the WL servers are shit shows too. I don't know how old you are or why it matters, but the average age of most of the RPers on those two servers is somewhere in the 30s.