Let's talk about sex redux

Don't get off topic! I want to know this secret no touch orgasm! Fuck, don't hold out dude, my husband must be taught.

Azrayne_sl said:

Come on, you're gonna post that but not tell us how it's done?

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Hypnosis is a pretty complicated skill. I had been reading/experimenting with it for ~5 years before I made a girl orgasm without touching her. Cutlery is right in that it doesn't work if people don't want it to, though since most women want to to orgasm but don't (certainly not without being touched) the rest falls kind of flat. It is a provably different mental state, as has been shown by MRIs of subjects under hypnosis. I think it was in 2009 that the University of Manchester concluded a study where they used to increase breast size (average increase of 1.11 inches, more than the control group who did exercises that make breasts appear larger). If hypnosis can control your hormones, no reason it can't control anything you want about your body. Hypnosis isoftenineffective and practiced by "faith healers" or other snake oil salesman, but that is nothing against hypnosis itself. Hypnosis is a highly effective clinical tool for any number of applications and a reasonably fun addition to sex. Nothing you can accomplish with hypnosis is unique, Tantric sex experts achieve similar orgasmic feats, it just takes years of training.

It really is plagued by the lack of regulation and the money grubbers who promise it can "fix" anything though. It has a bad reputation for good reasons, but not because it is ineffective when used properly.

The Master indeed. I would love to be able to do that.

For those who got their woman a Hitachi, but it is proving to be a little too powerful for them, you can buy a $20 speed controller for it which will allow you to tone it way down. Also some of the "attachments" that you put over the top will dampen the vibrations a bit and also allow you to hit a more targeted area with it.

Also, best sex purchase I have made is aLiberator Fascinator Throe.Worth every penny. Also have a few shapes, while they are 'expensive pieces of shaped foam' they are also a lot of fun. Pony up for the black label imo.

opiate82_sl said:

For those who got their woman a Hitachi, but it is proving to be a little too powerful for them, you can buy a $20 speed controller for it which will allow you to tone it way down. Also some of the "attachments" that you put over the top will dampen the vibrations a bit and also allow you to hit a more targeted area with it.

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Wrap it in a towel.

Everytime I see this thread the stupid song gets stuck in my head

Wow, how come I missed this thread. Sooo up my alley...

I was a god in bed and all that (not really, but I didn't have any problems until recenty). Now, I have a far more demanding job, we have a 16 moths old dauther, financial problems, and I am 35 years old. My problem is, when I am tired, I do have certain erection problems, nothing major yet, but any distractions or pauses during sex make me go a little bit soft, pushing rope as they say. Now I know that afther a certain age you can't expect to be at full strenght as when you were young, and it only happens when I am tired, but that is quite often.

Leaving aside the inherent issues that take a whole lot of time to fix, as in living heathier, exersice, quit smoking, etc... What would be the best short term solution for my "not yet a big problem, but still annoying" issue. So far I tried one solution - the dreaded pills. Not viagra, something less strong, the problem is that the brand that worked is also quite expensive (like 10 euros a pop). Did anyone used penis ring ? How were the results ? Any advice or links on a good brand-model ?

Get your testosterone levels checked, get more sleep.

What's anyone's experience with girls that squirt. This suddenly comes up a lot. My only experience it pretty much felt like she peed on me in one big shot. Twice.

Was banging a chick on my couch one time, her on top, and she squirted within about a minute of starting to have sex. It was my first experience with that, I thought to myself "yeah I'm the man" and kept banging away. Another minute later, another splash of warm fluid. I'm like "well this is odd, but okay it's kind of hot" and keeping going. 30 seconds later, again. Then outloud I'm like "whoa get off, we're putting a blanket or something down". I think she came about 5-6 times in 10-15 minutes of sex. Dated her a few more times, could sense the impending insanity and quite honestly found the squirting to be a nuisance, if not an outright turnoff. Not really my thing.

Yeah, I had an ex who did it, found it kinda hot but it's a pain in the ass to clean up those giant wet patches.

yeah that's why it's so hot, not the actual act of squirting (though it is kinda cool) so much as just getting that immediate visual feedback on how you're making her feel. Yeah you can also go off moaning/screaming, clenching etc, but squirting just seems more dramatic, not to mention impossible to fake. Unlike a lot of chicks who just moan constantly till it loses all meaning.

That was the one thing I liked, it was obvious she was getting off. This girl could put out small fires with the amount she was releasing. Like a cup of warm water poured on me. A lot of clean up required. Meanwhile other girls are telling me they want to learn to do it because guys are into it.

wamphyr_sl said:

Leaving aside the inherent issues that take a whole lot of time to fix, as in living heathier, exersice, quit smoking, etc... What would be the best short term solution for my "not yet a big problem, but still annoying" issue.

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These are by far your best solutions. Some relatively minor lifestyle changes can have you feeling and performing better in weeks, if not days. (Also, some extra sleep will do wonders.)

I hooked up with a girl at a club in Vegas and discovered she was a squirter. It was pretty fucking hot seeing and hearing her climax everytime she did. Ran her fingernails down my back everytime she squirted and left quite a few marks. Without a doubt one of the most raw, lustful, animalistic fucking encounters I've ever had.

Bed was fucking soaked. Felt bad for housekeeping who had to take care of that the next day.