Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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LulzSect
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I had an e-woman who e-liked me join, and stalk me (months) in our group chat (thinking I didn't notice) and got ultra butt hurt after I posted naked pics of chicks I was fucking. I think the mid-coitus pic is the one that did me in for her to hate me forever.
*the answer is no you're not wrong
iannis
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No,you're not wrong. There's no good way to deflect the question that should have not been asked.
It is hurtful. But you aren't wrong.
The best you could do is instead of just point blank saying no is remind her some questions should not be asked. Still distancing and hurtful, but more pointed.
It is hurtful. But you aren't wrong.
The best you could do is instead of just point blank saying no is remind her some questions should not be asked. Still distancing and hurtful, but more pointed.
Noodleface
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No Tarrant I'm not talking about her. I hate people reading my private conversation. To me it's a breach of trust and privacy
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moonarchia
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Ask your friends if they'd be cool with her reading your texts? If they say yes, let it roll. If not, tell your wife they don't want her to, and delete them off the phone.
Noodleface
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I was asleep and woke to her telling my kid "let's see who dad has been talking to"
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iannis
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That's over the line girl shit.
You don't even demand anal. She could show a little appreciation!
Noodleface
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Tarrant
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Huh? Let me explain my last post.
Logically = You, Mine, most guys perspectives
Illogically = Your wife's perspective.
Tarrant
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Yeah, fuck that shit. Finger print lock your phone and let her fucking wonder. That's bullshit.
Noodleface
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It is finger print locked but it was restarted or something so only need a pin to unlock.
It's just shit.
It's all those fucking articles telling women a man is cheating on her
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This is why you make your pin pi * e to 10 places.
Seriously though, I understand your anger. I got nothing to hide from my wife, she's who I'm texting 99% of the time anyway. But if she didn't want me reading something or vice versa, I'd expect it respected and understood by both parties.
Besides, deceitful behavior is accompanied by more than just texting usually.
Seriously though, I understand your anger. I got nothing to hide from my wife, she's who I'm texting 99% of the time anyway. But if she didn't want me reading something or vice versa, I'd expect it respected and understood by both parties.
Besides, deceitful behavior is accompanied by more than just texting usually.
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Turn this around. Ask her why she trusts you so little that she feels the need to read private conversations you're having with your friends. Everyone needs private space, even in, and perhaps especially in, a marriage. Trust has to be both directions. Either she trusts you to have conversations with your friends, or she doesn't. If she doesn't, there are larger issues, and she better get that sorted out.
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Mrs. Gravy
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She does this all of the time? I was wondering initially if she was experiencing some insecurities after having Noodlebaby two, but if that is a long-term pattern of behavior...then read lurkingdirk's post again.
Noodleface
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I basically told her that I just didn't like people reading things I've said or were said to me. I'm the same way at work, I don't like it when people read my email threads over my shoulder.
She's still convinced I'm hiding something like another woman or talking shit behind her back. Oh well
She's still convinced I'm hiding something like another woman or talking shit behind her back. Oh well
