Koushirou
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Tell her if she's that convinced she can go start writing up the divorce papers. Don't just let her sit there and accuse you of that dumb shit, dude. That's ridiculous.
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Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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Tell her if she's that convinced she can go start writing up the divorce papers. Don't just let her sit there and accuse you of that dumb shit, dude. That's ridiculous.
ToeMissile
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She's obviously in the wrong, but (pre/post) pregnancy hormones are all kinds of insanity. Noodle did say she's done it for a while so *shrug*
Xarpolis
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I just wanted to drop in again and say things have been going well with my wife since she initially told me she wanted divorce. I think she respected the amount I fought. I found a new job and have been busting my ass to the point that she was telling me I'm working too hard and should think of doing something else. Things have been going well. Thanks for giving me some opinions when I needed to hear all the good and bad.
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Noodleface
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I got 2 kids and a house. I'm not gonna go tell her to divorce me because I upset her
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Lendarios
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Tell her that there are boundaries, and if the other two participants are male friends, then frankly its guy talk. How would she or her friends feel if you were to snoop around her private conversations.
As a token of peace, let her look at the past conversation, but going forward, she has to trust you.
"I got 2 kids and a house. I'm not gonna go tell her to divorce me because I upset her"
Don't tell her that. At worse tell her..." Look if you want to divorce me over this go ahead. Im 100% confident explain to my kids that the reason her mom destroy our home is because I didn't let read my private conversations with my friends."
Noodleface
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The real issue is she doesn't care if I go through her phone , her words. Only I've never even wanted to go through her phone.
Last fight I got into with my wife my first response was, "just fucking leave me." I don't even remember what we fought about now, but for at least a week my wife treated me golden. She was however insistent that we not use the language of divorce in any further conversations.
Khane
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Well if this isn't normal behavior and you actually care about your wife you should just ask her why she's become so suspicious of you. It can't be just based on text messages so sincerely ask her why she feels you are no longer trustworthy. If she doesn't have a satisfactory answer to that question then the obvious solution is to tell her she can't handle being a bored, lonely housewife and she needs to get back to work.
If this is normal behavior then... why did you marry this woman?
Noodleface
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It's normal as in every 6 months or so she tries to go on my phone. Wasn't like this before. I got no idea man
Noodleface
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Guys I'm fucking dense. Literally retarded.
Two days ago her best friend told her that her fiance called off the wedding, one month before it was to occur. Her reason was he was homesick and his dad was terminally ill, but that didn't make sense to us and we figured he was probably unfaithful
And now it all makes sense.
Two days ago her best friend told her that her fiance called off the wedding, one month before it was to occur. Her reason was he was homesick and his dad was terminally ill, but that didn't make sense to us and we figured he was probably unfaithful
And now it all makes sense.
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Noodleface
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I don't think she's suspicious of me cheating, as deathwing pointed out I simply don't have time for it. It makes sense to me why she would have some sudden insecurity.
