Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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My point is, there's positives to both sides and the most important thing is that you guys are on the same page about it. There's no right or wrong answer here, its just critical that there's no unmet expectations between the two of you, and that both of you are considering the others point of view. Thats my point. I can have an opinion about what you should do, but I'm not in the relationship with you so it doesn't really matter.
It's not a black and white issue like "should I fuck other girls if she won't find out??" etc...
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The_Black_Log Foler
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Yeah dude. She's switching your role. Seems like now you're the cuck...
Also more pics of her.
Ossoi
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She's chosen to stay with him despite the violence, I'm aware what that means and involves.
I'm prepared to wait for it to end, nothing has really changed there.
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Big Phoenix
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Why would you be waiting? If this is just a friend you party with every so often what's their to wait for?
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Unintentional introspective comment is ironic!
Please let us know when you're willing to listen to even the barest minimum of common sense. Until then, stop using this thread as your liveblog/humble brag.
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Noodleface
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And not just party, but to a German sex club, while she knows she is cheating on someone to boot...
Yes this girl is really waiting for him to sweep her off her feet. Well played.
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Kithani
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Does your wife work? You said you would take a ~30% hit but how much would your household take overall?
Tarrant
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Yes, she works. The figure state would be simply off my income. We have separate accounts.
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Omi43221
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Hmmm...so social worker or something related to that? I think I would suggest whichever course of action that is least stressful on your marriage. Getting it over quicker might be more stressful in the short haul but less stressful in total than having to go to school extra 6 months. So no one here can really judge the feel of that but you.
Tarrant
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Yes, in the general field. And yeah, its just a trying to figure out what's more stressful, working as much as I do with a full-time work schedule on top of it, or 30% less money (which while I can do, it'll be a pain in the butt too).
Either way, I have a few months to mull it over I guess.
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So Old Girl who ran out on me like 5 years ago returned to Austin apparently. I heard from our old mutual friend group that she moved back and has been hanging out with them asking about me. I don't really spend any time with those guys anymore but it was nice of them to give me a heads up.
Considering she knows where I live I hope she decides to be a rational adult and leave me alone. I am guessing she deleted my number ages ago or can't find it or something because she would definitely have contacted me directly if she could have (I've had the same number for like 14 years). I can only assume that she broke it off with that dude out in Seattle. She does have a kid now too. Exactly what I needed in my life right now. God damn.
Considering she knows where I live I hope she decides to be a rational adult and leave me alone. I am guessing she deleted my number ages ago or can't find it or something because she would definitely have contacted me directly if she could have (I've had the same number for like 14 years). I can only assume that she broke it off with that dude out in Seattle. She does have a kid now too. Exactly what I needed in my life right now. God damn.
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