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Any experience with the 415th out in Parker? I get that courts are busy, but we're getting a lot of runaround from the court coordinator with "Oh, I'll send it to the judge" and then her basically going "Whoops, I forgot."
I already floated the numbers by him of what it could potentially cost if we went the lawyer route. That consult that I had before I just hand-waved as me asking about the viability of just mediating it and how much it would cost if we didn't. I got quoted $3500 for basic paperwork, essentially and told him as much and also told him we should probably try to avoid that because it's expensive. However, reason and logic have unfortunately never been part of his repertoire and if he wants to do something, he's going to just do it. And if he's going to lawyer up, well then I guess I have to, too. I just wanted this stupid shit done and over with, but I guess I can't have that, either.
I've been out to Parker a couple of times, and the rural counties kinda do their own thing. 415th is a court of general jurisdiction, so they handle criminal and civil and family cases.
4/11 was when we submitted the original proposed agreement; the judge rejected and said he didn't want us to maintain 50/50 on the house.
Spouse let his attorney go 6/25 (basically all she did was draft the original agreement) and we've both been pro se since then. We amended the agreement to allow my spouse to buy out my equity in the house on the same day. Basically no movement since then.
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Both me and the ex are on the same page and just want this done/proved up at this point. No kids; I bought out his equity on the car; he's buying out mine on the house. Not really seeing what's so difficult about this.
If he's still listed on your bank account, then I think I may know how he'll afford it.
If you haven't yet, I'd change the locks or combos on anything you don't want him accessing (don't lock him out of the house, that comes with its own issues) but safes, padlocks, bank account passwords, computers, etc etc...
Can full stack, but yeah. No luck yet, but haven't exactly been trying as hard as I should, either. Might be getting some 1099 work here shortly, though.
I can hook you up with some recruiters for remote if you want. We might have something available too depending on your resume. If you're full stack and SE-SSE then around 150-200k range.
Hoping this round goes better for you. She sounds wonderful.
what? no more chinese food for you? oh well you still get to keep your asian pass, lord knows how long you've put up w/ a gaysian
4/11 was when we submitted the original proposed agreement; the judge rejected and said he didn't want us to maintain 50/50 on the house.
Spouse let his attorney go 6/25 (basically all she did was draft the original agreement) and we've both been pro se since then. We amended the agreement to allow my spouse to buy out my equity in the house on the same day. Basically no movement since then.
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Both me and the ex are on the same page and just want this done/proved up at this point. No kids; I bought out his equity on the car; he's buying out mine on the house. Not really seeing what's so difficult about this.
Do they have alimony in your state? Because it looks like you're setting yourself up for alimony.
It does. As far as I know he's not asking for spousal support. We did have another talk today about how he just wants a lawyer's help to amend some of the paperwork and add a demand for me to a buy him a table and chairs. He did mention that he could ask for my 401k and savings, but he's not going to, but he wants his house equity. Still going to have a lawyer of my own just in case. If he does end up asking for it, what would he even get out of me? Some % of my UI bennies, I guess while it lasts?
