Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Koushirou said:

I tried for a long time to get our finances combined, but he always wanted his separate because he didn't want to be told what he could do with his money. Of course, it just became a scenario of having our money and his money. Obvious red flag that I ignored, but I never claimed to be smart.

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Just get all the info to your lawyer and let them do their thing. From what you have told us in this thread you guys pretty much commingled all the things, so you can expect to lose half of everything. Decide which stuff you need to keep going, and build your half around that. Start getting your stuff in storage out to your parents. Get the house listed and sold. You haven't been there long enough to build much equity.

Pick your battles. Your lawyer will be your sword and shield in all this, so just keep talking with them through the process. Neither of you have jobs. No kids. So it really does all come down to division of assets and debts.