Blazin
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That was my idea,, but is that a slippery slope? I did ask to put it in her butt, she said no
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slippery slope to what? To many fun sexy time things you can do? Try anything and everything and you can start wondering about slippery slopes when you find yourself in a gimp suit, butt plug inserted, humming oh captain my captain in Gregorian style.
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Yeah, 624 is a normal level. Wish I had other advice, but all I can tell you is that 1-2 times a week at 37 years old is pretty normal imho. You definitely hit a point around your age where desire for sex starts to diminish and you don't rubberneck every hot piece that walks by anymore. 'Tis sad but true.
I have no baseline though, as I've never had it checked before. I'm falling right in the mid lvl range
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Blazin
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You're probably right just sucks when it doesn't line up with your partner. First 7 years I wanted it more than her, then slowly worked it way to even and stayed that way for a long time. May just be a period of time her libido will be ahead of me. I'm use to be ing horny pretty much all the time, change can be stressful. Life long monogamy I'm sure plays a role, I really don't know that we are built for it.
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Maybe she can put it inyourbutt. Some people are into that idk, supposedly it stimulates the prostate.That was my idea,, but is that a slippery slope? I did ask to put it in her butt, she said noMy wife has a vibrator but I don't find that particularly exciting. My idea was to try watching porn together, something we've never done. Most porn is so over the top though I think she would annoy me with heavy sighs
But you had a vasectomy? Never mind. Terrible advice. Sorry.
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There's a lot of 'classy' porn out there like X-Art, might be more up your alley. Or hers.That was my idea,, but is that a slippery slope? I did ask to put it in her butt, she said noMy wife has a vibrator but I don't find that particularly exciting. My idea was to try watching porn together, something we've never done. Most porn is so over the top though I think she would annoy me with heavy sighs
Blazin
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Not sure I get guys wanting that, some fetishes are rather odd. Things I would find exciting (at least the idea of them as none of it would ever happen) in order:
My wife banging another girl (duh)
My wife masturbating with some big dildo, not the huge stuff just 'big'
My wife watching me have sex with another girl
Sex in front of others
Watching my wife have sex with another guy
Those are all pretty normal sexual fetishes/fantasies but in practical application don't see ever toying with any of them as they are too likely to have consequences outside of the act.
Itlan
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You want to be cuckolded? There's PLENTY of men willing to do THAT, but that's a very slippery slope my friend. I'd keep that fantasy in your head, you deviant.
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Personally if it's sleepy time and I'm feeling tired, odds to get me in gear are getting lower by the minute. If i didn't initiate beforehand and she doesn't do a move before my head hits the pillow, it's probably not happening. Since i made that clear, she makes her move earlier and gets better result.
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I'll have to try that, for her Game of Thrones is plenty titillating. Episode of GoT is a guarantee lay
Swinger route could be interesting for you blazin since what you mentioned has a lot of other people involved flavor. Not that I could ever do that, would be so weird to see my girlfriend with another person.
Blazin
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That is definitely just a mental one. I do enjoy my wife's sexuality and I don't really want to be cuckolded I just would like viewing her sexuality outside of my involvement.
As far as the day cycle I've always been the same. I'm peak horny from morning till early afternoon with a steep drop off in the evening/night.
Gavinmad
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Consider talking to her about something like a Sybian? Might be too loud if you have kids and sound carries in your house, but I'm sure it would handle the libido disparity as well as giving you a show. You also might consider trying to arrange your schedules to make it possible to give her a regular mid-morning plowing.
Also, how physically fit are you? Have any other health issues?
If you like watching her then go get a fairly large dildo like you want that you can put on a chair or some other stable thing and you just watch while she keeps eye contact and fucks herself. You tell her how fast or hard to be involved and see how well that works. You can also suction cup it to the wall or in the shower and have her blow you while she does it and it can feel like a threesome a bit. Just thoughts about how you can avoid a slippery slope of other people brought in.
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Her masturbating in front of me more often probably would do the trick just hard to explain to her that my asking for that is something I want and not a rejection of her. Nights I'm not in the mood I probably could get there pretty quick with her going to town next to me. I'm above average fit, work out daily, vegetarian. No health problems.