Blazin
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I have no baseline though, as I've never had it checked before. I'm falling right in the mid lvl range
Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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I have no baseline though, as I've never had it checked before. I'm falling right in the mid lvl range
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Im kind of in the same boat now. Its really fucked up too because I was like 2 fucks away from being a sex addict. If I was not balls deep into my wife, I was looking for something to fap to on the intraweb. But all this has changed in the past year or so. I dont even have the urge to fap anymore. And when my wife pulls me into the bedroom, Im down, but then 10 min later I lose the bone. Its fucked up. Im only 42 for christs sake. You guys saying I should get my T tested?
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Blazin
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Yes, my wife has stayed in shape and I'm quite happy on that front, I normally like to just read at night. I have no issues with being with my wife, just finding I'd rather not have sex. We are getting along quite well we spend a good bit of time and work out together almost every day. I mentioned awhile ago that since my vasectomy a few years back my orgasms are like a total flop, sex is still enjoyable but the ending is just bleh, I think over time it has made sex more focused on her which has slowly turned it into becoming slightly one sided that causes me to lose interest. I'm fine if she just wants to finish solo if she is feeling horny we don't hide that sort of thing she can just do that when I'm there it's just causing her to think I'm not interested in her. Sex without orgasms is still fun but I guess I'm realizing it is starting to have a psychological affect on me.
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Anything else changed in your life? Gained weight? stopped exercising? eating different? I am 36 and went through something very similar a few months ago. I was eating like crap and just feeling like crap as well. I made an effort to be more healthy and the libido returned.
I was curious to see Gavinmad's posts and what I learned was that you can't link searches that way.
Blazin
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Only changes for me is the other direction. I keep upping my game every year. I'm not overweight, I'm very active. I run 35-40 miles a week. Once or twice a year I travel to the west coast with my wife for some serious hiking/climbing. We are doing some fourteeners in Colorado this year. I have been training more lately than normal which is maybe just making me tired but that's not something I really want to back off on, have a personal goal to hike 2,000 miles this year. I am learning to speak German so maybe Germans don't like sex and that's the problem.
Gavinmad
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My kind of people would say kiss my ass, Scarface.
I mean I guess I could ask for advice about what to do about the fact that my best friend's daughter is probably mine and not her husband's, but somehow I doubt I'd get any helpful advice from the neckbeards around here.
Blazin
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Is someone making you check this thread full of retarded neck beards who aren't as smart as you?
If this is true, it's exactly the kind of interesting story this thread loves!
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Is any of that relationship related? That sounds more like a something to resurrect the GWBYH thread or for the Neckbeard 2.0 thread.
You are correct in that you are not going to get a lot of advice on how to navigate being a home wrecker around here.
You are correct in that you are not going to get a lot of advice on how to navigate being a home wrecker around here.
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Noodleface
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When me and my wife were boning twice a day almost every day I found myself getting a little bored. I even fell asleep once during the act.
Nothing makes a woman angrier than falling asleep.. let me tell you..
Nothing makes a woman angrier than falling asleep.. let me tell you..
this is a new one for me, how do you fall asleep during sex? I mean I can see it if you're getting a long and not so great blow job, but sex? Going to have to pin that one on your wifey being particularly bad during that session.
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Except asking her to hold a picture of her sister in front of her face while you bang her....
@Blazin-
Have you considered that you might be too tired and this is driving your libido down? Fatigue really can cut into it a lot, especially if you are milking the endorphin high from all these other activities.
@Blazin-
Have you considered that you might be too tired and this is driving your libido down? Fatigue really can cut into it a lot, especially if you are milking the endorphin high from all these other activities.
Blazin
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I freaking hate winter, if it wasn't for school concerns with my kids I'd move in a heart beat to the west coast.
I have sometimes have felt that maybe men have a hormonal cycle that is rather long, I have at times felt this way but for only shorter periods. This has been maybe 2 months maybe it will pass as winter does.
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Probably feeling lazy is what does it, Khane. Too many layers to take off.
You might try something new in the bedroom, see if it creates some anticipation. Introduce a toy or two, or maybe let her tie you up, or have sex in the parking lot of Walmart. Just something different. Worth a try, and everyone has fun.
You might try something new in the bedroom, see if it creates some anticipation. Introduce a toy or two, or maybe let her tie you up, or have sex in the parking lot of Walmart. Just something different. Worth a try, and everyone has fun.