I changed the garage code and took away the spare key that she used to come back and forth with. She can knock on the front door now if she wants to come over.
She was too young to know the bullshit her mother pulled, so she believes her mom on everything she says. Last time she was here I asked her why she doesn't want to be part of this family anymore and she called her mom and told her she was "upset and scared and wanted to leave." And that's where it ended.
Really? Same language your mom used? Same motif? Weird.
So yeah. I mean - she's 14. That's usually when fathers end up losing their daughters for awhile anyway. And also - I was waiting for one of my kids to move out so I had a spare bedroom to turn into a sauna. Now I know which one it's gonna be!
But yeah - still fucking sucks.