Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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My youngest decided she doesn't want to be here at all anymore
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Tell her to pack her shit and get the fuck out. You're a pretty stand-up dude and don't deserve that kind of bullshit and maybe some tough love will pound some common sense into her. Or a couple weeks of living with her mom again. Then again I'm usually dead wrong when it comes to emotional shit and maybe that would just give her mom more opportunity to whisper poison in her ear. Definitely not a dilemma I'd want to face.
 
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Gavinmad said:
Tell her to pack her shit and get the fuck out. You're a pretty stand-up dude and don't deserve that kind of bullshit and maybe some tough love will pound some common sense into her. Or a couple weeks of living with her mom again. Then again I'm usually dead wrong when it comes to emotional shit and maybe that would just give her mom more opportunity to whisper poison in her ear. Definitely not a dilemma I'd want to face.
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I changed the garage code and took away the spare key that she used to come back and forth with. She can knock on the front door now if she wants to come over.

She was too young to know the bullshit her mother pulled, so she believes her mom on everything she says. Last time she was here I asked her why she doesn't want to be part of this family anymore and she called her mom and told her she was "upset and scared and wanted to leave." And that's where it ended.

Really? Same language your mom used? Same motif? Weird.

So yeah. I mean - she's 14. That's usually when fathers end up losing their daughters for awhile anyway. And also - I was waiting for one of my kids to move out so I had a spare bedroom to turn into a sauna. Now I know which one it's gonna be!

But yeah - still fucking sucks.
 
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I changed the garage code and took away the spare key that she used to come back and forth with. She can knock on the front door now if she wants to come over.

She was too young to know the bullshit her mother pulled, so she believes her mom on everything she says. Last time she was here I asked her why she doesn't want to be part of this family anymore and she called her mom and told her she was "upset and scared and wanted to leave." And that's where it ended.

Really? Same language your mom used? Same motif? Weird.

So yeah. I mean - she's 14. That's usually when fathers end up losing their daughters for awhile anyway. And also - I was waiting for one of my kids to move out so I had a spare bedroom to turn into a sauna. Now I know which one it's gonna be!

But yeah - still fucking sucks.
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She's a teenager. Don't let her walk all over you, and don't hold it against her if she grows out of it. Hormones, friends, and stupidity are par for the course.
 
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Near as I can tell, the vast majority of relationships fall into some variation of one person carrying all the weight and the other being a piece of shit. The trick is finding someone who would carry all the weight, and then you carrying your own weight, and then getting lucky that they don't decide to be a piece of shit after they see that you're carrying the weight.
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The trick is realizing marriage is a 100%/100% proposition. A lot of people say 50/50 but that's a recipe for disappointment. Each one has to put their all into it but everyone doesn't have the same 100%. If done correctly each partner will think they're contributing more to the relationship. But that's only because with the other person taking care of business, you are focused on the parts you do.

I can't help much with the mixed family. While my wife had a bio child when we married, I did not. But I will say that I'm her dad and I wouldn't have been interested in having a child as a roommate.
 
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EDIT: reddit amods suck donkey cock. Here is some dating shit, shock-shock-shock, old people are old, young people are young, everyone is an actor. Go swimming - see the truth.
 
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Cutlery said:
No deal.

My wife makes homemade crunchwraps 3 nights a week. I ain't eating fuckin beans on toast after 12 hours at work.
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she expressed a willingness to learn to cook.

Besides, how hard could crunchwraps be? Absolute morons make them all day every day. She can't even manage crunchwrap supremes?
 
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My brother was like that when we were young. Couldn't get along with anybody, and my bio-dad gave him an out by saying "hey come live with me!" ... so my brother basically didn't get parented after like 12 years old, didn't finish high school, worked construction, fucked his body up, impregnated a fat stripper, etc etc... you wouldn't recognize my brother and me as related in any way.
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Ah this sounds like the male version of one of my sisters! She did all of this except replace construction with career waitressing and the fat stripper with a broke ex-junkie.

The medical calls don't go to me as my mom is still alive but she does that too. I've mentioned this in other threads but the phenomenon kind of astounds me. My mom had 4 kids, my 3 sisters and myself. But 2 of us are trainwrecks and 2 of us are successful. We all even grew up under the same roof, with the same parents, the same teachers, the same schools, and the same small town. Nonetheless...

Just wild shit to me.
 
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EDIT: reddit amods suck donkey cock. Here is some dating shit, shock-shock-shock, old people are old, young people are young, everyone is an actor. Go swimming - see the truth.
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Reddit isn't even worth posting on. I think probably 50% of the few things I posted in there were gone by the following morning for violating some "rule". And some of the time the rules don't even make much sense, or even contradict each other.

Be fully on topic! But not only on topic, something else also has to be included. Mention the name of the sub in the title. Talk about your shopping experience but not about how you interacted with anyone in the store. Stand on one foot while typing the post. You stood on the wrong foot, it was supposed to be the left foot. Didn't you read the rules?

Anyway, this text is ludicrous. Not only should she cancel the wedding, she needs to dump the guy immediately and get as far away as possible.



Posted because I can almost guarantee that this woman is going to completely ignore the nearly-unanimous advice people are giving her.
 
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Man, what kinda low grade whore takes it in the ass for olive garden.

Olive garden is, at best, worth a disinterested handy.
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I have no idea why, but bitches go crazy for Olive Garden for some reason. It crosses all racial and social boundaries. Italian food in general tends to make women excited but there is definitely a specific Olive Garden fetish. It is literally the only place I can open the bid with when my wife begins the game of "What do we want for dinner" and not have it immediately gunned down by her.
 
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Phazael said:
I have no idea why, but bitches go crazy for Olive Garden for some reason. It crosses all racial and social boundaries. Italian food in general tends to make women excited but there is definitely a specific Olive Garden fetish. It is literally the only place I can open the bid with when my wife begins the game of "What do we want for dinner" and not have it immediately gunned down by her.
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It's gotta be the salad dressing. It's the only thing that doesn't taste like shit. Oh wait and the deep fried ravioli appetizer. But that's relatively new.
 
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Our first date was to Olive garden but I feel like it was a little better back in 2008 than it is now. Either way it worked because I raw dogged her on the first date
 
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