Another point (or two)...
Though it may not help in this particular situation, I had somewhat assumed that by now someone might have expressed interest in helping us moderate this server. I guess we're not THAT big yet, with 26 whitelisted players, so maybe we don't need more moderation.
But this is what I meant when I said in your invite PMs that we're open to feedback, support, tips, advice, IE your perspective in general. If what you want is NO intervention from us, that's fine with me. It's best to communicate your expectations before you take action in the face of them not being met.
We are paying for a service for the entire community to enjoy. This server was going to be for me and Digital, but I wanted to open it up to the board whose members I've been gaming with on and off since 1999. I'm not tooting my own horn, I'm MORE THAN happy to do so. But if you want it to be your server, take a role in defining its parameters. That includes policing the police.
WITH THAT SAID, ABIG THANK YOUTO MCFLY WHO HAS DONATED GENEROUSLY TO KEEPING THE SERVER UP AND RUNNING.
We haven't had to upgrade our RAM and player cap yet, but his contribution will help us take that step if and when it becomes necessary.
Sorry for the rant, I just want you guys to understand that we're volunteering to provide a play space for you. We're not professionals. We have kids, wives, day jobs, and tons of non-minecraft shit to deal with. So if you want this server to be your *perfect* play space, take part, get involved, take ownership, and interact with us rather than just being mad at us for trying to help.