I just picked up this game myself. I got it from best buy after seeing it for 20 bucks and it's at least kept me occupied whilst the Ebay guy has never sent the God of War copy i ordered a couple weeks ago..Overall it so far feels like a very good dark souls game.
I also initially missed the last Shrine on the Paralyzing Boss. She was basically the only boss in the game so far that gave me any trouble, the next three after her were all very easy imo.
I'm about level 33 or so now. I'm using a Soul-transferred lvl30 Rakiri (sword you get from the chick after killing boss guy) as my main wep and a spear as backup. My stats are not efficient and i have just about every physical skill in the 10-16 area with heart begin my #1.. I also found myself liking the Dual swords also.. Should I respec and try to focus on something or is it not a big deal and just fill up my melee stats in general using whatever weapon looks best at the time? I've used every weapon save the Kurisaga (sp?) and i found them all potentially very useful.
My other question is about armor, in general i'm sitting about 50% weight mostly using medium armors with occasional light or heavy if i get something i really like. Should i focus on one type? the damage mitigation on heavy looks pretty weak and it feels like most enemies hit like trucks regardless.
As for stances at first i thought it was unnecessarily complex. But i have grown to like it, although i should prob use the high stance more and mostly stick with low/mid all the time..
I don't block at all, i guess this is sort of a holdover from my play in souls games as i think it would be very useful sometimes.