Yes. The trade offs are a real pain in the A. Color calibrated IPS panels only came in 60hz flavor when I built my system a few years back. And I wanted to use Nvidia Surround at 7680x1440 resolution. Even at 60hz that resolution really taxed the cpu/gpu combos available then but I managed. I'm so hooked on 7680x1440 now that I rarely play games that don't support it. Thankfully most do. The visuals are glorious. But at 60hz I definitely feel the eye strain.
Even the new hardware is taxed by that resolution / hz with max settings. Older games not so much but the new games really crank up the fans / heat. Add RTX to the mix and the fps drops to unplayable.
My dream system would have 3 2650x1440 120hz (or 144) IPS color calibrated monitors running all the new games at 120 fps minimum on max settings. While in Nvidia Surround (or the AMD equivalent - Crossfire I think). But even these new cards and the latest cpus can't handle that.