Jesus H Tapdancing Titty Christ....not everyone in game wants to be your friend....not everyone in game wants to talk to you.LFD is only part of the problem. I keep stating that when combining an LFD tool (that doesn't help you re-group with people), with cross server barriers, WITH shitty dungeons that don't require you to utter a word; it creates an environment where meeting new players becomes prohibitively difficult during the leveling game.
Put a mirror next to your monitor. If you put forth the effort to start a conversation and one or more people in the group don't respond...look in the mirror, tell youself it isn't personal, finish the dungeon, and try again. Goddamn what is your RL like? Do you curl up into a ball when the person behind you in line at the grocery store doesn't respond with more than hi when you say hi?
You keep stating the LFD tool doesn't help YOU re-group with people, well no shit, that's not it's job. It's job is to put together groups as fast as possible. That's it, no if's and's or but's, no maybe's. Re-grouping with people you've grouped with before is on YOU, it requires effort from YOU. Games have changed. Games today have far less downtime than they used to. Downtime between trash pulls in a dungeon isn't coming back anytime soon, if ever. YOU are the one that needs to adapt to current/future games, whether you like the current design or not has nothing to do with the conversation, cause the games are not going to adapt to you. Don't come back with cross-server or dungeon design or anything else about a game you have no control over, doing so is nothing more than a bullshit excuse for not putting more/repeated effort into "meeting" people. Meeting people and making friends is your responsibility, not the devs. You are either willing to put forth the effort to make friends with what you are given...or you're not.
I know I'm coming across like a dick but the whole "random strangers don't/won't talk to me, but they should and every single random stranger I encounter should be my friend too" thing is just mind-bottling.