Recent content by Chaotic_foh

I know. I don"t care about flooding. Get insurance call it a day, or do like my friend did and just raise the house. To me the risks are far outweighed by the beauty of the view. Unidin, that"s about what I thought.

Problem with that HUD shit is that (at least around here) it"s GARBAGE neighborhoods. The kind of stuff where you"d be quite literally killed walking the streets at night. I"ve been in and out of this thread, a number life changes including family life and a major break up have delayed /...

Springbok, epic post. Sleeping around has it"s allure. I don"t know what it is. Maybe it boosts self confidence, maybe it placates some biological / primal need, maybe it just feels good. I"ll say two things on the topic. One, I think that if you / the female you are with didn"t have...

Or you could just pay attention. If you"re going for girls that are rejecting you, you"re not doing it right. Sound advice though.

Reading above is why movies are just a bad first date. Without having built up that sexual tension, there really is just no opportune time to "make a move" Also, with no dialogue there"s no time to build attraction. When it comes "time" it really shouldn"t be just this arbitrary "here i...

Man, fuck New York. I"ve been looking at houses for probably over a year. "Shopping" more seriously about 4-5 months. I think the more I get into the market and look around, the more turned off I am. I mean, a MEDIOCRE area - which i"ll classify as a good school district, can walk around...

It"s been almost a month since the whole thing went down. It"s been really, really shitty.. but she made it easier (harder?) for me by being really cold. Today I resolved to bring all of her things to her house after work. Will be a bad night, but whatever. I"ll let her know like 30 minutes...

Update: It"s over. We spoke, she said basically the same exact thing she had said a week before. She doesn"t know where we stand, shes in an emotional dead zone etc. I"ve been falling apart this past week and it reached a very bad spot two nights ago. I asked her how she has been, and she...

The ambiguity is the problem right now. We didn"t break up (Even though in my head, we are) She said "please just give me a bit to sort my head i don"t know what I want right now" I don"t know. I"m having a really fucking hard time with it all today - just got back from work and the drive...

Grumpus. Made me laugh out loud. Well fucking done. Except red hot chili peppers are her favorite band. Irony!

Man. I think you fucking nailed it. You made me recall a few things she had said. She grew up with alot of emotional problems, used to do some bad shit, got blackout drunk as a teenager etc, cut herself the whole nine. this was probably 7-8 years ago. In her adult life, I guess as she came into...

Wear this shit to work every day. Being a cop is pretty conducive to getting women, although I can honestly say i"ve never fucked or even hooked up with anyone I met while working. I value my job too much and women are crazy. Also helps that i"m on one of highest paid departments in the...

I workout like a mother fucker already , and i"m very into my job. I have a great network of friends as well which is great. It"s just the times in between which suck my dick. I"m actually quite surprised that you guys are cool about this. Who would have known. Yea, I know it"s the...

Yea, I know that"s the right answer. I just wanted to hear it said I guess.

I"m inclined to agree with sutekhs advice 100% (how the fuck) i"d toss you another neg if I could. I mean, this is going to sound like bullshit or a play on words - but things will just happen. People like to say everything happens for a reason. I say no. Things happen(ed) because they...