Recent content by Solariss_foh

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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Don"t understand, never had somebody mistext me.. how is that even possible?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Got a date tonight.... Feel like I don"t even want to go because I"m stepping outside my comfort zone and meeting somebody I"ve never even seen before.. but I know I"ll never meet somebody if I don"t. Anyways, just going to the downtown area of my city, walk around and look at shops I guess...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Holding a conversation is my biggest fear, especially when meeting somebody new. Not sure exactly what to say... but I know there has to be certain questions or good conversation starters that can be used. Any tips there? I"ve been on a couple dates that went horribly and don"t want that to...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Lol, I"ve had a few guys offer to blow me... but I get a lot of replies from girls too... I have PoF but never found anybody on there, and really don"t like the site layout that much. The problem I find with these sites is that if I find an attractive girl and send her a message... she"s already...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Finally talking to someone worth a damn... She"s pretty cute. The okcupid thing has been shit so far, but I"ve posted on craigslist too. Gotten a lot of replies, just mostly whales that I"m totally uninterested in... So just basically texting right now.. when is a good time to ask for a date, or...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    For the record, I didn"t create a Facebook page just to stalk this girl lol. I"ve had one for a while, just had it deactivated and reactivated it to scope out why some girl got fired at work. Anyways... yeah, it"s pretty absurd the way I feel. But she"s hot and I want to fuck her. Oh well.. I...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Just reading this page made me get out of bed to type this. If anybody remembers my story a week or 2 ago. It directly relates to what Brad and Vvoid have said. It"s so hard to get over this girl. I know I need to let it go. It"s somewhat obvious to me she doesn"t share the same feelings I do...
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    Salary Negotiation

    Not sure that"s entirely in the cards. I"m waiting to hear if this other company will offer me what I"m asking. He said he would get back to me in a couple of days. After that I"ll let you guys know where I stand and I"ll try to make a decision. I guarantee if I get this offer, my current...
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    Salary Negotiation

    Well, I pretty much am at this point. There is no chance to move forward. There has been a hiring freeze at my company for the past 4 years.. So I"m basically stuck at my position. I just feel that maybe if I write up an e-mail I"ll be able to get something out of it. I"m not even looking for a...
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    Salary Negotiation

    The benefits are great... what goes into my pocket really isn"t compared to what I should be getting after so much time. That"s just how I feel I guess. When I see the hire-in rate compared to what I"m making now, I"m not that far above it. Though it seems managers (at least mine) don"t pay...
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    Salary Negotiation

    I"m in a REALLY tough position right now. I currently work for a company that has great benefits. I have health insurance, profit sharing (just contributed 6k to my Vanguard account this year, with nothing from me), and next year I can exercise my 100 share stock option that at this point...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t know if that"s a good or bad thing! There is probably a lot of truth to what you say. I was never originally like this when we were actually dating. Not even close in any way. I didn"t give a fuck, so I figured that was her first impression. But maybe there were too many incidents...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Nah dude, I"m saying that could happen in the future, and it was said in a joking manner as everyone else has said nobody follows advice here. Don"t think I will, until I come back and tell you I did!
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I left out a really important fact in the story! Just to stay relevant and true to this forum. When I initially broke up with her around November 2002, a month later I started playing EQ again HARDCORE. Her efforts to get me to hang out and get back together with her were abated by the Planes of...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I will say this. I posted this for a reason, because if I get advice, I will feel better about what I choose to do and know it"s the right thing. I"d hate to just straight up ignore her of course... I"m setting up a Match.com account on Friday when I get some time.. already had this planned with...