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Who says I wear sneakers on dates? I'm talking about random compliments talking to girls at parties / in class / etc.
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Who says I wear sneakers on dates? I'm talking about random compliments talking to girls at parties / in class / etc.
Chukzombi
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i do when she isnt wearing stilts, i barely do when she is. google platform sneakers and see for yourself.
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a party is a social event, unless its a sausage party, you should be dressing for the occasion. keep in mind there are different rules for different ages. a bunch of 20 yr olds you can show up with no shirt and your chest painted and fit right in. nobody cares about your shoes. over 30 and you gotta look like you arent a bum. that means nice clean shirt, pants and shoes. if you cant survive without sneakers, then wait til 3pm when high school gets out and try your luck with those girls.
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Bruv I was going to keggers with puddles of beer on the floor I'm not gonna wear my good shoes lmaoa party is a social event, unless its a sausage party, you should be dressing for the occasion. keep in mind there are different rules for different ages. a bunch of 20 yr olds you can show up with no shirt and your chest painted and fit right in. nobody cares about your shoes. over 30 and you gotta look like you arent a bum. that means nice clean shirt, pants and shoes. if you cant survive without sneakers, then wait til 3pm when high school gets out and try your luck with those girls.
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Another thing that matters a lot to women is social reputation. And I was pretty well known / popular, the sort of guy that could randomly drop into random parties anywhere between campus and downtown and know at least a few people. I'm good looking but (as long as you're at least not an ugly slob) chicks notice that shit more than they notice looks.
This is getting off topic for dating advice tho. Didn't realize posting an old selfie would lead to everyone analyzing College Age Pharmakos lol
This is getting off topic for dating advice tho. Didn't realize posting an old selfie would lead to everyone analyzing College Age Pharmakos lol
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yeah, Keggers and that kind of shit is par for the course, you arent going to wear actual clothes adult humans wear at those things. its basically a freeforall. i meant parties that you attend in your 30s where you are the asshole if you show up drunk. keggers were a lot of fun because everyone is stupid drunk and you dont know how they will end up. maybe getting laid, maybe passing out and waking up with a bunch of dicks drawn all over your forehead or maybe you die. the old fogey parties are fun too in their own way, but you gotta wear clothes that real adults wear.
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All my close women friends love picking out clothes for me and taking my pic to send to another woman. Just what they do. It's like playing dress up with a large doll I guess. The ones that are married do the same. They have to get me married and have said that forever. Thanks for the help I guess. Was never looking to get married. The thing is if a woman wants to introduce you to one of her friends if you ask the right questions they will quickly turn on that person and tell you anything and everything that could possibly be wrong with her and they talk about the way guys talk about people.
It's impossible to meet a woman in my line of work. So the regular places you go, the store and events and such. Costco, target , not walmart. College baseball games have been good for me, it's popular sport at LSU and someone gives 4 people tickets and almost always one of them is a single woman and is the odd one out. That and out tailgating. You don't have to go full homo but stop wearing the velcro tennis shoes, yes I know someone that does.
It's impossible to meet a woman in my line of work. So the regular places you go, the store and events and such. Costco, target , not walmart. College baseball games have been good for me, it's popular sport at LSU and someone gives 4 people tickets and almost always one of them is a single woman and is the odd one out. That and out tailgating. You don't have to go full homo but stop wearing the velcro tennis shoes, yes I know someone that does.
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Chukzombi
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The supermarket is a great place to meet women. Especially since a lot of women are short and they can't reach the items on top shelves. You stroll by and grab the item for them. You become the hero. Help them with getting their bags in the car since chicks buy a literal ton of bottled water now and have trouble lifting the cases. Lots of opportunities. I've taken advantage of it a few times. Just gotta make sure she isn't married. Kids are no big deal unless you plan on getting serious.
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my point was that if you're going to use the word "tower" to say you're taller than someone, it wouldn't be barely.
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My current girlfriend is 4'11 and I'm 6'1. I'm sure she needed someone tall enough to reach shit lol. Her husband died in a car wreck a number of years ago and she lives in a fairly smally town. I'm sure the biggest appeal is I didn't know his/her friends and vice versa. She asked me out but you take what you can get. Her son is a senior in college and totally out of the house.
A number of my friends that got divorced act like when they find someone to date it will be like being married all over after the first week. Dress like shit, come home from work and sit on the couch watching TV till bedtime. Do something together? Shit no I work for a living and am tired fuck that. Just a guess but acting like someone retired or has been married to the person for 30 years is not a big turn on.
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Random question. It sounds like your therapist is female? Curious how that’s played out.
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Curious what T levels our forum test bros are at? Very skeptical of medical “accepted levels”. We’ve seen how medical community shifts around tolerances for what is healthy on the fly to fit some bullshit narrative (hi Covid)
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Majority of women I went on online dates with used old photos or angles. Maybe the worst was one that used 10 year old photos. Wondered why she looked weathered as fuck the first date. Snooped around and found her dating profile pic 10 years ago on her social media…
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Yeah, literally all of the women I've met from dating apps are either 5 years older or 40 pounds heavier than their pictures. Literally all of them. I'm racking my brain trying to think of even one who wasn't. Well, there was this one Jordanian woman who looked exotic and had tremendous boobs and actually matched her pictures pretty well, maybe only 20 pounds heavier IRL. She asked me to go down on her and then cuddle and then get out when asked, without any reciprocation or anything else, and I respected her audacity. One of the few I liked from there and it went absolutely nowhere of course. Also had the most awkward moment I've ever had on a date when I went to kiss her goodnight and she just sort of ducked around it like a boxer and said she doesn't like emotional attachment, so I just kissed her on the forehead. Was weird as absolute fuck. I didn't call her again and vice versa.
I don't know if I'm too good looking, or not good looking enough. Cause I've had plenty of women not be interested at first glance despite my efforts. Yet other women have told me that I was intimidating to ask out because of how good I looked, or that they had trouble with me because I was so good-looking and nice to them that they were catching feelings and didn't want to, weird stuff like that.
I honestly have no goddamn clue what I actually am on a 1-10 and I'm certainly not gonna post the question to the room so people can pick apart my choice of socks or something.
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Online dating is a complete waste. As
Big Phoenix
has pointed out many times before, statistics don’t add up in any man’s favor. It’s a complete grift and has ruined dating culture. Add to the fact exactly what you said - women’s pics are 99% of the time misleading on those apps.
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According to some random poll I saw, "A person is likely to lie about themselves within the first 8 steps of a dating profile." So of course I wouldnt be looking for a long term relationship out of anything online. eHarmony and shit like that seems super wasteful to me, as well. I want to know where the woman I date is naturally. What she does from day to day. Had enough random hookups with women in the Army. If I was single, I wouldnt turn one down - but its not what I would be looking for.Online dating is a complete waste. As
Therapist is a woman. I met her when I started attending a new church. Shes a muscular woman thats got me going to the gym with her and her husband. He's a fucking beast of a dude that works for the city as a fireman. Her degree came from Liberty, so I would rank her very low on the indoctrination / cut your dick off scale. Both of them are the type of people that I aspired to be when I was growing up - not necessarily their job, but the lifestyle they lead. As a man, I just dont think I would let my guard down mentally as much as I do with her. Her therapist style is zero drugs, which is another reason I stuck with her.
I used to have this old doctor I could talk to when I needed advice. Guy was always trying to get me to do better. After he died, I realized that he was mentoring me and I really miss that. Something that is truly hard to find.
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How is this possible? I haven't gained 20 pounds in 20 years. If they've gained 20 pounds in 5 years, they're going to be 100 pounds overweight in 15-20 years? How old are these chicks? Are they just all fat?
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