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Sheriff Cad
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I don't dress in any particular way to indicate wealth though, I don't wear jewelry of any kind, I have an apple watch. Don't wear anything flashy or designer. The sandals I wear everywhere are like 15 years old. I think they just like the look of authority that older men embody.
Gavinmad
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I realize I'm coming in kinda late but what in the good god damn fuck is the difference?
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Khane
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Designer clothes? Flashy? How you dress? What do you mean? That's Miami/L.A. horseshit.
What's your zip code? What does that waitress overhear you talking about? Where do you hang out? Who do you associate with? Women aren't as stupid and vapid as most men like to think they are. They might be shallow but they know what to look for. Older women taught them that.
Sheriff Cad
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I'm talking about chicks trying to talk to you at like the gym, the grocery store, pickleball, stuff like that. Not anyplace where you give off a money vibe.
But I do understand what you're saying and agree, but I don't know how these chicks would know any of that stuff at the places I'm talking about.
Sheriff Cad
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Gavinmad
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TheAylix
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We are leaving money on the table every second we don't work on this.
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I know this will sound like the ultimate whiny bitch but I don't care. I did not go to college until I was 24. From 18-24 I was making real good money. Enough I started with a new 4wd truck, a nice apartment, a new car, then bought a house.
Sounds like paradise. And it was kinda. But everyone you knew from high school and such hated my ass. They were in college trying to get by and starting their career.
It attracted a lot of women they were fresh out of high school. Not as big of a bonus as it sounds. I should have tried trolling around campus but I was working. Then college I still was around a number of girls fresh out of high school. It changed later on.
But I belive in the dating someone who is a rebel kinda deal. I dated a girl out of high school for a few years. Her mother was a teacher and I was a drop out. She had a lot going on besides great looks. I didn't udnerstand it other than she wanted to rub it in her mothers face. She eventually married a naval officer and go to attend the kind of func tions she wanted that I didn't. She wound up owning a yoga place and running 5k-10k or whatever they are often. Should of, could of, didn't lol. I used to tell her she was crazy for wanting to be a pro beach volleyball player, she now lives at the beach.
Sounds like paradise. And it was kinda. But everyone you knew from high school and such hated my ass. They were in college trying to get by and starting their career.
It attracted a lot of women they were fresh out of high school. Not as big of a bonus as it sounds. I should have tried trolling around campus but I was working. Then college I still was around a number of girls fresh out of high school. It changed later on.
But I belive in the dating someone who is a rebel kinda deal. I dated a girl out of high school for a few years. Her mother was a teacher and I was a drop out. She had a lot going on besides great looks. I didn't udnerstand it other than she wanted to rub it in her mothers face. She eventually married a naval officer and go to attend the kind of func tions she wanted that I didn't. She wound up owning a yoga place and running 5k-10k or whatever they are often. Should of, could of, didn't lol. I used to tell her she was crazy for wanting to be a pro beach volleyball player, she now lives at the beach.
Control
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You're sabotaging yourself for whatever reason. You can't make things perfect before you start, it doesn't work that way. You find something worth starting, start it, then you work on making it better. If at some point later you decide, ok, it's not good enough and you can't make it better, well ok, that's how shit works out sometimes. But nothing is ever going to get great if you don't give it a chance. All the overthinking you're doing it just trying to logic yourself out of giving it a chance. That's fine if you don't want it. If you do, then stop worrying about the little things. And yes, everything you're worried about is little things. Compared to who you're going to spend your life next to, everything is a little thing.
Also, figure out if you want kids asamfp, and move heaven and earth to make it happen if you do. You can't untick that clock.
imo, it's called the smell of having your shit together. We're all constantly emitting thousands of micro-cues, and women have evolved to instantly (and subconsciously) recognize the ones that matter to them. Confidence and competence smell the same in a tshirt and flipflops. (I mean, obviously they have daddy issues, but they still have to figure out who smells most like daddy!)