Girls who broke your heart thread
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I guess the The Girls Who Broke Your Balls Thread more or less = The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread, so ya.PigBenis said:
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Takes government money and spends a crapton of it on weird shit and video games? I always figured Sean"s real life name was Sean not Chris.Wrathcaster said:
I have 35k in cash after a years worth of work in this country. It"s not much, but damn it feels good to me.Corndog said:
I swear, I don"t understand women. I meet this girl and we get along great. We both share the exact same sense of humor, she"s really intelligent and pretty cute to boot. I ask her out and we meet up for a lunch date. It starts off great, really good conversation, we"re both going back and forth... and then she starts talking about her ex-boyfriend.
Ok. I don"t think there"s anything wrong with bringing up a past relationship if it"s to prove a specific point, but once you do so, for god sakes move the fuck on. I DON"T CARE ABOUT YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND.
Still, this girl was so cool that I was willing to forgive the 10 min conversation about her ex, so we moved on. Back to great conversation, things are going well again... and then she starts talking about this other dude who is chasing after her.
What. The. Fuck. Why would I care about something like that? And why would you spend another 10 minutes talking about it to someone who may a potential romantic interest?
This is literally like the fourth time this has happened to me. Maybe it"s something I"m doing? I really don"t understand.
Are there any normal women out there?
Ok. I don"t think there"s anything wrong with bringing up a past relationship if it"s to prove a specific point, but once you do so, for god sakes move the fuck on. I DON"T CARE ABOUT YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND.
Still, this girl was so cool that I was willing to forgive the 10 min conversation about her ex, so we moved on. Back to great conversation, things are going well again... and then she starts talking about this other dude who is chasing after her.
What. The. Fuck. Why would I care about something like that? And why would you spend another 10 minutes talking about it to someone who may a potential romantic interest?
This is literally like the fourth time this has happened to me. Maybe it"s something I"m doing? I really don"t understand.
Are there any normal women out there?
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Bringing up an ex during a first date is a red flag. Could mean she isn"t over the ex.Whyme said:
Bringing up someone else sounds like trying to induce jealousy/play hard to get.
It could have been a fluke, maybe she was just having an off day. However, if you go out with her another couple of times and she keeps yapping about her ex, I"d be very wary.
She could just be nervous and just talking about the first thing that pops in her mind. I"ve said plenty of stupid shit about exes or other bad date topics over the years just because I"m a little nervous and just ramble.
If it bothers you, just steer the conversation away. It takes 2 people to have a 10 minute conversation about something. Stop talking about it. You can either start giving 1 word answers, "yea..." which will get the point across pretty soon, or just say, with a smile, "let"s not talk about exes anymore. blah blah blah new topic."
Chicks love to bring up guys who are chasing them or their celebrity fantasies or other stupid shit like that. Just take it as another shit test: ignore it and change the subject. It"s really irritating when girls do that. I feel the same way. But it"s not a reflection on you. Just steer the conversation to something else.
If it bothers you, just steer the conversation away. It takes 2 people to have a 10 minute conversation about something. Stop talking about it. You can either start giving 1 word answers, "yea..." which will get the point across pretty soon, or just say, with a smile, "let"s not talk about exes anymore. blah blah blah new topic."
Chicks love to bring up guys who are chasing them or their celebrity fantasies or other stupid shit like that. Just take it as another shit test: ignore it and change the subject. It"s really irritating when girls do that. I feel the same way. But it"s not a reflection on you. Just steer the conversation to something else.
Call her on her shit. If not, you"re gonna be their guy friend they bitch about their boyfriends to.
I sat down with a guy friend who has dated a whole slew of women, one right after another (to the point where every girl he described sounded exactly the same.) In every circumstance, he starts talking about ""she isn"t over her ex, I wasn"t over my ex, the ex started calling, there was drama with the ex...""Whyme said:
I"m starting to wonder if it isn"t an excuse for bad behavior. Gives her/him a preemptive excuse if/when they sleep with their ex, for starters.
Jabberwhacky said:
Check out who that post was referring to. I won"t spoil the surprise. I"ll sum it up in a word: prophetic.
