First, I"d like to point out to you that not one single person made one single comment about my looks when you made your original post. Only a small number of people just made comments which were basically on par with a few, "Oh snap!" posts. I think the longest one was something like, "She doesn"t fuck around". I don"t even see how that can be seen as "sucking my dick", but whatever. Most people posted to state they were anticipating more drama, no post really complimented me as a person or as a poster prior to you making your first post that showed your disgust for responses related to me. That did seem like it was directed at me because all of the posts, as far as I can recall, seemed to be much, much weaker than the ones made for the people who posted drama/dirt about Sam, Grobbee, etc. (I can"t really find a good event to compare to since this is pretty weak, so I"m picking events where people responded to the OP"s with these types of e-compliments).
I"m not saying I want to bath in compliments, I can do without them just fine. I"m saying that this is completely biased and unfair. Just as I pointed out, I could compliment any of you guys and I doubt there would be a post saying that someone was completely repulsed by my creepy behavior, or insinuating I"m some pathetic loser who thinks I"ll have a chance to bump uglies with someone because I kissed their ass.
I hate attention whores as much as everyone else, and I also am irked by the guys who are only nice to them because they are females (remember the guys who defended LucyKemp???). However, I don"t think I am an attention whore. I never went out of my way to broadcast my gender, I don"t use some photoshopped myspace angled pic as my avatar, and I try my best to not make retarded posts (I can"t help it sometimes).
He posted something like I was cute, smart, and logical. I guess unless he"s not a close friend of mine "irl", he"s evidently trying to seduce me by saying that? So if I said the same exact thing to you, would you be creeped out and think I was trying to get in your pants? So basically you could say something awesome about a post Vvoid made, I could say something awesome about a posy you made, I guess it"s hard for you to see things from my perspective.
This is pointless. I can"t seem to turn my thoughts into words that make any sense, and I"m not sure any of you would understand it if I could anyway. It"s like this is a clubhouse with a "Boys Only" sign on the front and even if I helped build the clubhouse, decorated it, cleaned it weekly, and delivered snacks, I still am not allowed to come inside.
Jerks.
FYI: Theonlytime I have ever came close to "attention whoring" and blatantly used my gender/T&A for an advantage here was to get donations for a very sick little girl and her family [Shill: Go to charity thread and donate, thanks!!].
PS: Please excuse any/all of my typos and/or grammatical errors, in addition to me being painfully long-winded (you should be used to the latter by now). I"m on pain medication and literally fell asleep (3 times) sitting up trying to finish typing this.
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I understand, sort of, but I"m being singled out here and I don"t understand that. Plenty of people have made posts that were "applauded", if you will, and they wouldn"t end up with something like this being said, which seems to happen damn near every single time a "popular" post of mine comes into question.Dabamf said:
So he can compliment me, but as long as he sounds like a retard it"s OK? This makes absolutely no sense to me. I call Kuriin hot, I think he"s intelligent, and all sorts of other fabulous things. I know I don"t have a chance with him because he"s gay. It"s kind of silly, I guess. You can rip on Etoille and that"s acceptable, but I can"t be complimented because it"s creepy? I can"t make any sense of that. I think there are lots of attractive men around here who are smart, and some even logical. I don"t think I"m creepy for saying that.
You need to lighten up if it bugs you that much. You seem more upset someone complimented me than you did when that a girl made a dookie-spoogies on your bed.
Yes, but you don"t even know how many of the people here know me. You guys have lashed out at people I know in real life and have known for many, many years.
It is toward me, though. I can compliment anyone here that I want to and it"s perfectly fine. Never is it challenged. This is being turned into this huge deal because of something I have absolutely zero control over and something I don"t even enjoy, as a matter of fact. I like being "one of the guys" and I like that I can say a great portion of the people I"ve encountered in my guild and on these forums have treated me as such. Even once I was single (which I have been for quite a while), only 3 people made (legitimate) passes at me.
I"m not saying I want to bath in compliments, I can do without them just fine. I"m saying that this is completely biased and unfair. Just as I pointed out, I could compliment any of you guys and I doubt there would be a post saying that someone was completely repulsed by my creepy behavior, or insinuating I"m some pathetic loser who thinks I"ll have a chance to bump uglies with someone because I kissed their ass.
I hate attention whores as much as everyone else, and I also am irked by the guys who are only nice to them because they are females (remember the guys who defended LucyKemp???). However, I don"t think I am an attention whore. I never went out of my way to broadcast my gender, I don"t use some photoshopped myspace angled pic as my avatar, and I try my best to not make retarded posts (I can"t help it sometimes).
He posted something like I was cute, smart, and logical. I guess unless he"s not a close friend of mine "irl", he"s evidently trying to seduce me by saying that? So if I said the same exact thing to you, would you be creeped out and think I was trying to get in your pants? So basically you could say something awesome about a post Vvoid made, I could say something awesome about a posy you made, I guess it"s hard for you to see things from my perspective.
This is pointless. I can"t seem to turn my thoughts into words that make any sense, and I"m not sure any of you would understand it if I could anyway. It"s like this is a clubhouse with a "Boys Only" sign on the front and even if I helped build the clubhouse, decorated it, cleaned it weekly, and delivered snacks, I still am not allowed to come inside.
Jerks.
FYI: Theonlytime I have ever came close to "attention whoring" and blatantly used my gender/T&A for an advantage here was to get donations for a very sick little girl and her family [Shill: Go to charity thread and donate, thanks!!].
PS: Please excuse any/all of my typos and/or grammatical errors, in addition to me being painfully long-winded (you should be used to the latter by now). I"m on pain medication and literally fell asleep (3 times) sitting up trying to finish typing this.
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Can someone explain this to me?
