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Back to me! Refresher:
I"m laughing at myself how I can see that I"m either getting gamed, or simply starting to desire what I can"t have. After dropping Barb off at her place on my way to work Friday morning, I had kind of written her off. Physically attractive no question, and seemed like a nice girl, but also really "small town", possibly stupid, and just not a lot of mutual interests. I figured I"d give it another date or two to see how she was sober, and not lit up.
She had suggested we hang out this passed Sunday at her place and watch some TV, but begged off supposedly because a shift came up at her side waitressing job. No worries I said, let me know your sched and we"ll figure something else out this week. She didn"t reply with any specific days that worked. Then last minute Monday afternoon I realized I had tickets to the Sharks game and asked her if she"d be up, but she"d apparently made plans to watch the Bachelor finale with a friend of hers who is going through a breakup. She said she was tempted to cancel anyway, and next time she"d be up "fo shooooooo", thanks for thinking of her etc.
After going back through the texts, I don"t actually think she"s playing any games, nor is she begging off cause she"s not interested. Dropped lots of things like "another time", "chat soon" etc but on the other hand when I asked her on Sunday what her schedule was like during the week she didn"t give me any specific days that would work this week. She"d also asked me three times when she was drunk to come out for her birthday this weekend coming up, but I"ll be out of town.
I think if anything she"s a bit embarrassed about how drunk and forward she got last week and likely trying to play things a bit cool so as not to scare this awesome new guy off (amirite?). Like I said though, I"m chuckling at myself right now because last Friday I didn"t really care if I saw her again, and yet here I am after getting turned down a couple times wanting to see her again. At this point just going to play things cool and let her make the next move, the ball is in her court.
Oh also I"m quite aware of the fact that I"ve not provided boobs in the past. At the hockey game last week at one point I jokingly asked if she had any good nude pics on her phone when she handed me her phone to hold on to for her, and sure enough she right away busted out a great pic of her in lingerie (after showing me like 20 pictures of her cats). Most of the girls I"ve dated are not the naked pics kind of girl, but this one is, so we"ll see what can be done. Already know the PIN to her phone, if it comes to that!
I"m laughing at myself how I can see that I"m either getting gamed, or simply starting to desire what I can"t have. After dropping Barb off at her place on my way to work Friday morning, I had kind of written her off. Physically attractive no question, and seemed like a nice girl, but also really "small town", possibly stupid, and just not a lot of mutual interests. I figured I"d give it another date or two to see how she was sober, and not lit up.
She had suggested we hang out this passed Sunday at her place and watch some TV, but begged off supposedly because a shift came up at her side waitressing job. No worries I said, let me know your sched and we"ll figure something else out this week. She didn"t reply with any specific days that worked. Then last minute Monday afternoon I realized I had tickets to the Sharks game and asked her if she"d be up, but she"d apparently made plans to watch the Bachelor finale with a friend of hers who is going through a breakup. She said she was tempted to cancel anyway, and next time she"d be up "fo shooooooo", thanks for thinking of her etc.
After going back through the texts, I don"t actually think she"s playing any games, nor is she begging off cause she"s not interested. Dropped lots of things like "another time", "chat soon" etc but on the other hand when I asked her on Sunday what her schedule was like during the week she didn"t give me any specific days that would work this week. She"d also asked me three times when she was drunk to come out for her birthday this weekend coming up, but I"ll be out of town.
I think if anything she"s a bit embarrassed about how drunk and forward she got last week and likely trying to play things a bit cool so as not to scare this awesome new guy off (amirite?). Like I said though, I"m chuckling at myself right now because last Friday I didn"t really care if I saw her again, and yet here I am after getting turned down a couple times wanting to see her again. At this point just going to play things cool and let her make the next move, the ball is in her court.
Oh also I"m quite aware of the fact that I"ve not provided boobs in the past. At the hockey game last week at one point I jokingly asked if she had any good nude pics on her phone when she handed me her phone to hold on to for her, and sure enough she right away busted out a great pic of her in lingerie (after showing me like 20 pictures of her cats). Most of the girls I"ve dated are not the naked pics kind of girl, but this one is, so we"ll see what can be done. Already know the PIN to her phone, if it comes to that!
