So about 5 months ago my wife's younger brother (23, I think) got his first ever girlfriend. She came over to meet us and apparently I was the only person in the family that thought she was terrible. She didn't really say specific things that threw me on to her scent, I just seem to have this sixth sense when it comes to shitty people in RL. Anyways, dude was happy so whatever, who am I to say anything.
Some backstory for the dude. He was 5 years into his 4 year degree with about 2 years left. He worked HVAC at his brothers company as a helper. I knew that he already dropped out of school based on intuition, but his mother claimed he showed her his grades every semester and he was doing great. He was a virgin before meeting this girl, because he told us all when he no longer was. He may be on the spectrum too.
Our interactions with her over the next two.months were increasingly more awkward. They came over for a board game night (munchkin) and formed a team and ruined the game. At some point he didn't want to trade with her and I saw her grab his dick and say she wanted it when my wife wasn't looking. It was weird..
Another time she came over and went on this tyrade about how his boss (his brother) was running his company into the ground and she was going to March in and tell him how to fix it because she took some business classes (I am not making this up).
At this point she moved into my mother in law's house with the dude. She started getting controlling and whenever MIL was in the room, the chick would refuse to speak to her and turn her back to her. IN HER OWN HOUSE THAT SHE IS NOW LIVING IN. MIL told him that she wanted the girl gone.
Another side track, while this is going on my wife has our emergency birth in the house. She could've died, and she ended up passing out a few times at the hospital for blood loss. Everyone rushed to meet us at the hospital. Everyone except him. He didn't even text her congratulations or to see if she were ok. In the end, him and his girl didn't meet our son until 3 weeks after birth. My wife was hurt more than I've ever seen her because they were very close and he lived 5 minutes away. When he did meet her, he told us how he got his first apartment with his girl of 2 months. It seemed to me he didn't care about our kid, only came over to tell us he was moving.
So he moves out. MIL offered help and the girl turned her down. Later that night they ask his father and brother for help and they help him move. They come back to MILs house because they bought food for everyone, except MIL.
We dont hear anything for months from this guy. Radio silence except older brother sees him at work. The dude ends up quitting the job and giving g two weeks, last week he was at a new job. He texts older brother and says 'i heard we got our bonuses after I left, I'm legally obligated to that so please give it to me or I'll see you in court." What the fuck? Big brother caves because he doesn't want to deal with it, no matter how frivolous it is. And it's only $1500 so its easier to pay him off.
Dude then goes to MILs house and tells her that she was a horrible mother, she pushed him into school when he didn't want to, shamed him for making him show report cards, fat shamed him, and said he was incredibly disappointed that she wasn't like his girlfriend's mother. He was then banned from there house and told they'd call the cops if they came back.
Kid went from normal but almost autistic dude to a fucking cocksucker overnight. All for the pussy.
Oh and btw, she's fucking disgusting. Her teeth are almost black and rotting.
I was really offended by all of this, because as people.may or may not remember I started dating my wife around a time where my mother started attempting suicide. My MIL took me in and let me live there after I had been dating her daughter for only a few months. The difference of course was I was respectful and not some ingrate. My MIL is a good woman that paid for the dudes bills so that his college was completely paid off while he went, cooked all his meals and bought him all his food, and went to every single swim meet he was in for 8 years.. many requiring multiple hours to drive to.
So I got really pissed. I told the dude he wasn't allowed on my property ever again and if I saw him in contact with my kids I would beat the everloving shit out of him. It's not a logical response but I'm still mad. I can't trust a dude that would threaten to sue his own brother and burn all bridges in the family.
I told my wife if the chick fucks with me she's going to go missing and they'll never find her.
