Marriage and the Power of Divorce

pharmakos said:

let him know you can assemble a posse of internet friends to beat him up if he hurts you

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Will do, you darling man.

So -true story- we were out together with a group of friends. ..school chums...and one who is a good friend of mine, and was his classmate, as she was leaving, hugged him good-bye and in a very serious tone, whispered in his ear that she would kill him if he hurt me.
Of course, she will have to get in line, because I go first....I will, to quote Westley from The Princess Bride..."First things first...to the death, No, to the pain."

Truly, as long as he remains as up front with me as I need, it will be good. Major lies, fucking around on me or any attempt at abuse are about the only actions that will hurt me. If he just decides that I am not as perfect as I actually am and he let's me know it is not working for him, I will be sad, because well, the love thing is at work in me...but I have been through worse and I know now, that I have options. All of you and the passage of time have helped me to learn that.

I love you men and women, I just do. You are perfectly imperfect and I am at so at home with all of you...every last one. I am graced with your perspectives and the contributions you make keeps my mind in expansion.
G would be so grateful to know you watch out for me.

Khane said:

I've only ever had one person say something as ridiculous as "Do anything to hurt her and I'll kill you" to me.

Oh... well shit... in that case I guess I won't. I mean I was planning on making her scream and cry until you said that, so good thing you're protecting her. I guess people really can change. Thankyou.

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It was just meant to let him know that I am important to her... Sheesh, we all thought it was funny.

Khane said:

I know that it's supposed to convey sentiment and importance to the person saying it but I just always found it eyeroll worthy. Like something from a B movie.

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You can be so snarky in such a charming manner....So agreeable to the reason for the remark, followed up with condescension. It really is a talent.
I like it. ♡

Alex said:

That's one of mens' primary tools to manipulate women.

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And vice versa.