My friend been going through a divorce that I honestly expected, but guy was lonely and went for it (they are young).
No kids, no major martial assets and both work at basically equal pay. Wife decided to take a few trips on the dick carousel and friend tried to repair marriage at first, but ultimately the bridge has finally broke. Will be an uncontested divorce at 50/50 split financial assets and physical assets basically split by want, is current trend apparently...
The guy is mad butthurt over the blatant betrayal and not thinking straight. He left the house but had a mutual tablet with all social media logins saved. He went to her accounts and snooped and it was apparently 100x worse than anything she confessed to, like really bad. They leave the area for work so a lot of this happened during business trips. I don't feel a lot of sympathy because hes my partner in crime from childhood and I tried to warn him, but still want try to give the bro best advice. Marriage is 100 % done, no chance of revival.
He wanted to post all the nasty shit to her FB wall and I had to talk him down. Settle finances and get the divorce set before doing stupid shit is my stance at the very least. Dude is deadset on doing it, not in a position to fly over and slap sense into him, but apparently the girl is talking mad shit to mutual friends painting him as some monster and its eating at him.
At this point my fucks given are pretty low because I gave so many red flags against this crazy cunt. Do I try to urge him to be a better person and best revenge is success, or let him scorch earth and enjoy the 30seconds of retribution?
