Marriage and the Power of Divorce

We talked right after I posted that, established that she still likes me but she's "been through this before". e.g. other guys she's dated...yes its everyone else not you. I'm Matt Damon from Rounders; where once I saw a multifaceted intetersting woman that I had clearly wronged, now I see the threads that bind an immature girl who refuses to mature and take ownership of herself.

Congrats Onoes, that's awesome that stuff has worked out between you and your ex.

That's not a very grown up forum post.

Yeah man, she looks like she has nice titties, let the man be happy.

God no, not the Renfair girl... that was... uhhhg. This is the girl I met the day after that! haha

Also I sold the Jurassic Park truck over 3 years ago. Time flies.

And the Dwarf Cleric is actually just your run of the mill Viking Gnome and one of the coolest guys I've ever known.

mcdj22 said:

The real question to ask here is of yourself: Would I appreciate it if a girl couldn't be called on her bullshit? You're much too worried about her thoughts and her response, that you're not being yourself.

Were you abused as a kid? People pleasing is a common trait.

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A dynamic changed. At the first sign of conflict She took the nuclear approach. She's a full grown woman, she can live the life she wants to live.

Lendarios said:

If you want to end it on nice terms, tell her, that you like her a lot, but you cant date her because she is unstable/projecting on you her mistakes. If she wants to be in an adult relationship, then she can give you a call, but on the mean time, you'll be dating other women.

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And if you want to end it on bad terms you can tell her to wait a sec while you jerk off in her living room.

its already ended she basically told me that her liking me has nothing to do with the situation, essentially she's willing to cut her nose off to spite her face. That or she's lying and she lost her infatuation with me earlier, but she will not say...if she did than I would have a story to tell her that I had intended to tell her yesterday but that scenario did not play out.

There is nothing for me to do but swipe right, hike mountains, compete on the mats, and feel listlessness over the idiocy of the human experience.

I don't know about that, I keep reading that thread and it makes me feel 100% worse.

Onoes said:

I don't know about that, I keep reading that thread and it makes me feel 100% worse.

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That's because you aren't miserable. Misery loves company after all.