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And what is that going to accomplish? A judge won't give me custody with having no job or money to support the girls.
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Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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And what is that going to accomplish? A judge won't give me custody with having no job or money to support the girls.
Hosix
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Technically speaking she can’t just take off with the kids and remove them from their home without consent. But he needs a lawyer for that fight...which he doesn’t have cause it’s easier to not get one, lose his kids and everything he owns than to, you know, not do those things.
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Gavinmad
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She totally can. Until they have an actual custody agreement, or possibly a temporary injunction of some sort from a judge, she can take those kids wherever she wants and not tell him shit. This might have actually worked out well for him if he'd already engaged a lawyer and gotten the courts involved, but since he spent all his time doing things that didn't involve getting a lawyer, she took the initiative and now he'll be lucky to get a couple weekends a month once this is all sorted out.
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Him himself, no he can’t do anything. But as I said a lawyer would be able to prevent her from doing so, it’s skmething I’ve had to do before.
But again that woulda required him to actually get a lawyer.
"If you don’t seek immediate court relief after a unilateral and unapproved move like this, there may be consequences. If, when the move occurred, divorce proceedings were not already pending, then it may take months before the court makes any custody decisions. In this time, the children’s status quo could have changed from living with you in your current situation to being adjusted with the moving parent in a new home and school. If this is established as fact, then the court will hesitate to uproot the child again, even though you did not approve of the initial move. "
My Spouse Has Left with the Children: Now What Do I Do?
My Spouse Has Left with the Children: Now What Do I Do?
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Exactly.
I don’t know much about a lot of things...but divorce, kids, custody and family law I’m as armchair professional as you can get, ive been through it more than a person should have to. I wish I was ignorant on all of it honestly, it sucks that everything I do know is due to experience and I get frustrated with people here sometimes when I desperately want them to avoid things I’ve been though with that process.
I’m learning a lot as I work on my degree in child and family services as well so that’s cool too.
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You’re not wrong...after all this it sure seems like it, doesn’t it?
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Namon
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Well hell in other marriages, we somehow hit the lottery and both kids were gone for most of the day yesterday. So mind blowing porn star sex ensued. I made my wife squirt to the point of it flying a short distance across the bed. Yes, I know it's most likely pee, and no I do not care.
When it comes to these crazy doomsday scenario stories that get posted, I just flat ass do not have anything to contribute. My wife and I have issues, and of course I'd love for sex to come more frequently, but then I see some of these horror stories and I'd totally take on the life of a monk if it meant not dealing with that bullshit. Another one that makes me realize that is my wife's cousin's situation. The wife in that situation is addicted to Meth got caught once went to an 8 month rehab program, was out in 3 1/2 weeks because Jesus healed her. She's back on it, and the husband (my wife's cousin) is too retarded to not be manipulated. This chick is taking their kids to the meth house to do her thing(s) and a witness saw said dealer holding the kids as she got in her car after a visit. But nope, nothing to see here.
When it comes to these crazy doomsday scenario stories that get posted, I just flat ass do not have anything to contribute. My wife and I have issues, and of course I'd love for sex to come more frequently, but then I see some of these horror stories and I'd totally take on the life of a monk if it meant not dealing with that bullshit. Another one that makes me realize that is my wife's cousin's situation. The wife in that situation is addicted to Meth got caught once went to an 8 month rehab program, was out in 3 1/2 weeks because Jesus healed her. She's back on it, and the husband (my wife's cousin) is too retarded to not be manipulated. This chick is taking their kids to the meth house to do her thing(s) and a witness saw said dealer holding the kids as she got in her car after a visit. But nope, nothing to see here.
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Neighbor had similar situation. He stopped accommodating and she's slowly creeping back to reality. I think he asked her to get the trash can one day and roll it 20 feet, she didn't of course and there it stayed for like 2 weeks until she capitulated.
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I did hear some magic words last night. She told her aunt "well he does work all day and gets home late and Im home all day so I've started cooking"
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Cutlery
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Yeah, sometimes they just need a fucking reality check. I've got a buddy who's wife is pants on head retarded entitled and every 4-5 years ago she needs some other female member of the family (mom or daughter) to explain to her "uhh, you know he does EVERYTHING right? He pays all the bills, he does all the housework, and asks almost nothing of you and you're still a cunt?"
It works for a few months and then the cycle begins anew.
It works for a few months and then the cycle begins anew.
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Wait how long have you been married that this is just now becoming a thing? When my woman isn't working she cooks 100% of the time or offers to drive wherever we want to go. She cleans and does laundry alone, too, if she has more than a week off. When we both work we just split it. This isn't something we ever even talked about, it just happens.
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Noodleface
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Look you're new here. She's been "home" for about 3 years now. I don't actually mind cooking, but I'm taking a lot of overtime on and I told her matter of factly if she wants to eat, she needs to do the cooking. Unless she enjoys eating at 10PM.
I've come to terms with the fact that she'll never clean the bathrooms. I grew up in a household where my parents made me do chores every single weekend - I cleaned the bathrooms, vacuumed the house, and mowed the lawn. My wife grew up in a household where her parent's (her mom) did everything. I had to teach her a lot of stuff that I didn't think people needed to learn.
She does do the laundry at least, and she does some cleaning if we're expecting people.. but we got a long road to go. Just this weekend she removed the obnoxious playpen she constructed in our living room and I cheered. It dominated our entire fucking room, and it's gone. Things are happening.
This was only a few days after I fucked her for 3 hours so..
I've come to terms with the fact that she'll never clean the bathrooms. I grew up in a household where my parents made me do chores every single weekend - I cleaned the bathrooms, vacuumed the house, and mowed the lawn. My wife grew up in a household where her parent's (her mom) did everything. I had to teach her a lot of stuff that I didn't think people needed to learn.
She does do the laundry at least, and she does some cleaning if we're expecting people.. but we got a long road to go. Just this weekend she removed the obnoxious playpen she constructed in our living room and I cheered. It dominated our entire fucking room, and it's gone. Things are happening.
This was only a few days after I fucked her for 3 hours so..
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