Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Picasso3

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Build her a mother in law suite in the backyard so she can disappear. If she ever moves out you can air bnb it
 
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Tarrant

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Yeah I wouldn’t worry about it too much in terms of what others will think. Any women worth being with won’t be turned off by the whole idea that you help support your mom.
 
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Yes, just be honest about it.

If any one complains ask the girl, if she would ditch her own mom out on the street.
 

Big Phoenix

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Your mom lives with you, you don't live with your mom. There's a difference and I think most women understand that. Some will probably even look favorably on it since you're supporting and helping your mother.
Sounds an awful lot like taking a risk and putting myself out there.

I was leaning towards that though. Was thinking about getting back into the dating pool at the start of 2020 regardless if my mom was still living with me.
 
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McQueen

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You probably don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t understand taking care of an aged parent.
 
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So, by "taking care of" an aged parent, I assume you mean actually being good to them, and not euthanizing them?

I kid. I hear what you're saying. And frankly, I think the last few posts have been on point. If you say to a girl, "I'm sorry, it's hard for me to take you home. My mother is in a rough spot and is staying with me so there isn't much privacy." and she bolts, you've dodged a bullet.
 
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Kithani

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Build her a mother in law suite in the backyard so she can disappear. If she ever moves out you can air bnb it

I really like this idea too, assuming you can afford it and have room on your land for it. It sounds like your mom is unlikely to be leaving your life in the long run so may need to think about a potential solution like this that can work for y’all.
 

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Are any of your siblings married? They should be the first to take her in. I bet it was good for you to have her move in to get over your divorce, but she can bounce around with the kids can't she? That might have been her plan from the beginning. If she's got grandkids she might prefer living with them.

My cousin was in a similar situation with my grandma. She raised him and he basically went straight from college to taking care of her. He still slayed pussy. He even brought them home but I don't know how quickly. But when he was about 30 he had a talk with my dad and granny moved in with us.
 

Hoss

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Wife went on a business trip. She brought me back some porn. I think she's a keeper.

In this case it was some playboys from the 70's that she found in a second hand shop. But still ...
 

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Wife went on a business trip. She brought me back some porn. I think she's a keeper.

In this case it was some playboys from the 70's that she found in a second hand shop. But still ...

Torpedo tits and bush, wow

Send it back :)
 
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Hoss

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Torpedo tits and bush, wow

Send it back :)

You don't know what I'm into. You can't judge me.

Also, it's playboy. The articles will be good. I hope I don't realize halfway through that my dad had these and I'd already read them.
 
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Namon

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Re: Mom living with Phoenix

Seriously look into getting a tiny house OR building a small outbuilding that can serve as a studio apartment (no idea what kind of codes you face in your locale though). Whatever she chips into the till to live there can go towards the payment. But both of those are pretty reasonable to obtain. If not that, unless it's one of those 100% completely open concept houses, maybe it's time to convert a bedroom into a den and a living room or even the garage into her space. And I agree with Khane Khane on this one... there is huge difference between being a basement dweller and helping your mom out by letting her dwell in your basement, and I think you are scoring serious sex equity on that one that you are just washing down the drain.
 
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Nester

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if your moms gonna be with you for a while. I would consider a new house with a better layout and a basement suite for your mother.

agree with other comments, your situation is a world of difference from living in your moms basement. Go Slay
 

McQueen

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If his mom is anything like my mom, she can’t be trusted to prepare her own meals in her own kitchen. It’s fine for a few days until she forgets how the microwave works and nukes some random leftovers for 10:00, or can’t remember the timer on the oven and falls asleep or just forgets with something in the oven at 425. If she could live alone in her own space for any period of time, she wouldn’t be living with me.
 

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If his mom is anything like my mom, she can’t be trusted to prepare her own meals in her own kitchen. It’s fine for a few days until she forgets how the microwave works and nukes some random leftovers for 10:00, or can’t remember the timer on the oven and falls asleep or just forgets with something in the oven at 425. If she could live alone in her own space for any period of time, she wouldn’t be living with me.
that sucks. We all get old and dementia is real, and making preparations to take care of our parents is a big part of the next stage of life.

Also Big P consider looking into asians =) they consider filial piety one of the pillars in life.
 
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Captain Suave

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Also Big P consider looking into asians =) they consider filial piety one of the pillars in life.

The right kind of asian mother-in-law is the best invention ever. She thinks I'm amazing because I actually talk to my kids and manage to put up with her daughter (who is a "failure" because instead of becoming a doctor/lawyer she's a physicist), and will cook for us and babysit on zero notice whenever we ask.
 
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Big_w_powah

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that sucks. We all get old and dementia is real, and making preparations to take care of our parents is a big part of the next stage of life.

Also Big P consider looking into asians =) they consider filial piety one of the pillars in life.
My Dad was in the hopsital a few weeks ago, I had to hold his dick to help him pee into a cup.

You can't plan for that shit.
 
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Big Phoenix

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If his mom is anything like my mom, she can’t be trusted to prepare her own meals in her own kitchen. It’s fine for a few days until she forgets how the microwave works and nukes some random leftovers for 10:00, or can’t remember the timer on the oven and falls asleep or just forgets with something in the oven at 425. If she could live alone in her own space for any period of time, she wouldn’t be living with me.
That sucks. For my mom her problem is purely financial, which has been compounded over the last few years as rents have significantly increased since 2016(fucking trump!). Only places that fit her budget are in shitholes but theres no way I could let my mom move out into some shithole 5-10 miles away. Her living with me isnt all bad though, I do get nice home cooked meals a lot and she does the dishes.

Shes 4th on the list for some assisted senior living place nearby. Talking to her the other day she said she will probably go to Florida at the beginning of the year and visit family til a spot opens up for her or at least for 2-3 months.
Also Big P consider looking into asians =) they consider filial piety one of the pillars in life.
Not many of those in my area, they all live on the far east side. Also my ex is Asian, so yeah...
The right kind of asian mother-in-law is the best invention ever.
Ex was Asian and her mother was the definition of cunt. One of the most vain people I ever met and monumentally controlling of my ex which in turn caused a lot of problems for us. I shudder to imagine how that could have possibly have gone.
 
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TJT

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Sounds an awful lot like taking a risk and putting myself out there.

I was leaning towards that though. Was thinking about getting back into the dating pool at the start of 2020 regardless if my mom was still living with me.

Dude just roll the fucking dice in this situation. Plenty of women in the sea.