So I'm back to dating...looking for more of the wife material. It's been awhile since I had to get out the fishing pole, and man it seems things have changed... idk if it's culture or age... I'm 33 now, but boy it's god awful so far. They have mostly fallen into a few categories.
1) Hot pictures, followed by a few curvy ones, followed by being fat when you meet in person. To their credit, a couple of these girls have actually been pretty cool/intelligent. One even knows her Scottish clan, her father plays the bagpipes, she can cook and bake, interesting. Seriously considered lowering my standards, very cute face, but I just can't get over the fat and rolls. No attraction.
2) Looked cute, in person they were slang-wielding wannabe ride-or-die hip-hop lovers/grungy/bad teeth/weird mental shit that you just wanted to nooopppeee the fuck out.
3) Semi-hot/hot -- have the intelligence and personality of a wet fucking noodle. Type you would be sitting there saying, who the fuck is this retard I just fucked and let into my house. Telling me how she gonna save the planet or trees or some shit, right after she finishes bitching about her co-workers and gets her broken nail fixed, and finishes her 'insert useless degree she's been working on and off for 10 years on'.
Man, you really gotta get this shit right the first time as a young man and get those good ones early. And if you got a good one, even if there's a couple things here and there, hold on to that girl. Much much worse scavenging the leftovers. Problem is I ignored all those good ones for the crazy hot fun ones. Definitely regretting that shit now.
P.S. I'm taking tips on where to possibly find decent ones around my age group. Local groups to join, etc. I've seen some cute ones at my gym, but man I'm just not that gym guy creeping up on a girl that's just trying to get her workout on. Right now I've just been tapping the online dating venues. Probably not the best place for just normal down to earth girl material.
This is my ex... pretty smoking, kinda crazy, but compared to what's out there I'm starting to think I made a big mistake, and should just accept some-crazy as granted. Time to prostrate myself and ask for forgiveness? lol
Looking for some feedback/advice from people that may have gone/going through similar stuff.
tldr: mid-life crisis