It's interesting how differently you view Paul's attitude versus Kobe's when I think they're largely similar (neither tolerates poor work ethic, "soft" play, or sloppiness well). I imagine you'd respond with "Five championships" but do you think Paul would have zero championships if he replaced Kobe on those teams? There was enough discontent to make Shaq and Howard want to leave and plenty of incidences where he completely goes off on players ("These motherfuckers aren't doing shit for me."), just like it seems there was enough for Jordan. Why is Kobe a team builder and Paul a team destroyer?
On a related note, should be funny watching Kobe getting into Hibbert's shit this coming year. Hibbert gets down and sort of gives up way too easily and that's Kobe-bait right there.
Kobe and Paul both bitch a lot, sure, but I'd say Paul does it more often, which is a small miracle, and in a way that seems to annoy the refs more. Maybe it's the championships, I dunno, but refs seem to dislike Paul and take his complaining as whining and give Kobe more of a pass because he tends to do the MJ 'are you kidding me' stare to get makeup calls. And Kobe is a bit more of a sociopath, so he picks and chooses his moments, where Paul just seems to bitch all the time.
I don't think I've ever heard even any murmurs about Kobe being a dirty player or a flopper, both of which get said about Paul (and I personally agree).
Kobe was with some pretty shitty Laker teams, and while he threatened to leave if they didn't get help, he didn't leave, though, and right or wrong people value players that stay on the same team for their entire careers. Paul is seen as the typical young player drafted to a shitty team, can't build the team up, everyone blames management, etc, but meanwhile Paul isn't winning much on some pretty talented Clipper teams with deeper pockets. Not to mention, Paul was the one that signed an extension then basically pouted and bitched until the Hornets just wanted to dump him for nothing. And those Hornets teams weren't great, but they weren't terrible either. Second seed one year? Can't really credit Paul for doing all the work to make a team good, then give him no blame when he can't get it done in the playoffs.
Oh, that's another difference, Paul seems to deflect blame, where Kobe is pretty good about accepting it and internalizing it and letting it piss him off so he competes harder next time.
I thought the NBA vetoing the trade that would send Paul to the Lakers was bullshit, but I also think it would have been just as much of a trainwreck as the Lakers were without him. Those two on the same team would have been a soap opera, and not in a good way for anyone.
But shrug. People hate Kobe. People hate Paul. They have some similarities, sure, and maybe it's just that Kobe gets a pass because he's got rings, but whether right or wrong or you agree or don't personally, there is still a very distinct difference in public opinion of them.