Here, let me translate your post for you, maybe you'll understand then if it's in bullet point format.
A) The xbone has less powerful hardware than the ps4
B) The Xbone is great! (citation needed)
C) The xbone costs more than the ps4
D) The kinect can theoretically speed up navigating the shitty xbone UI, except it isn't, because it's inconsistent (fuck microsoft and their trend toward random ass boxes all thrown at you at once rather than a tree structured UIs, a tree with a controller and you wouldn't need voice commands).
E) It'd be nice to be able to us less remote controls to turn on the television. Except that you can't actually get rid of any remote controls... because some things it just can't do with an IR blaster. So you're still stuck with having to have the TV and Audio Receiver remote, at minimum, handy
F) Long-term, games will be even better on the ps4
What exactly don't you understand? You listed a BUNCH of reasons why the PS4 is favored.