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Hoss · 2026-05-28T14:29:12-0400

Big Phoenix said:
Absolutely soul crushing. Also not mine. Dudes starting posting their bumble stats on the bumble sub reddit and they're all around 1% or less of women swiping right on them.

And that's not even matching, that's just a woman swiping in you that you may have swiped no on.

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he's only swiping right on half the girls? I never played this particular game, but I'm pretty sure he's doing it wrong. The most surprising number there is that 10k+ women viewed his profile while he's only viewed 2800.

Maybe it's got something to do with girls having to make the first move on bumble. But I can't figure out how exactly.

Kirun · 2026-05-28T15:16:58-0400

Big Phoenix said:
Absolutely soul crushing. Also not mine. Dudes starting posting their bumble stats on the bumble sub reddit and they're all around 1% or less of women swiping right on them.

And that's not even matching, that's just a woman swiping in you that you may have swiped no on.

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Where's he getting that data? Or does Bumble show you now?

Big Phoenix · 2026-05-28T15:39:51-0400

Hoss said:
he's only swiping right on half the girls? I never played this particular game, but I'm pretty sure he's doing it wrong. The most surprising number there is that 10k+ women viewed his profile while he's only viewed 2800.

You don't want to like/swipe on most women, doing that punishes you in their bullshit algorithms.

Kirun said:
Where's he getting that data? Or does Bumble show you now?

Yeah you can request your data from them. Tinder too I think as well.

Animosity said:
They all are different. A lot of the apps let you see messages or who swiped on you. Some you have to pay for to get the added bonuses.

For bumble in particular you still have to swipe to match. Hinge will show you people who have liked you but then you still need to swipe on those people as well.

OU Ariakas · 2026-05-28T15:49:39-0400

Big Phoenix said:
You don't want to like/swipe on most women, doing that punishes you in their bullshit algorithms.

I don't know how the algo's work, but after i swipe "no" on someone three fucking times and see them again, I just block them.

Animosity · 2026-05-28T15:49:44-0400

You can respond to messages and it will then auto match vs having to swipe to match. So its a different algorithm.

Control · 2026-05-28T16:09:40-0400

Big Phoenix said:
Absolutely soul crushing. Also not mine. Dudes starting posting their bumble stats on the bumble sub reddit and they're all around 1% or less of women swiping right on them.

And that's not even matching, that's just a woman swiping in you that you may have swiped no on.

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Animosity said:
This data doesnt also show the bigger picture. Most women dont swipe. They just go through all the Yes's sent to them and then choose.

It's all about perspective. If he had an auto swiper, he'd get to log into at least 70 women to choose from! Sure, the women would have 7000, but hey, gotta play the hand you're dealt.

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