Marriage and the Power of Divorce
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It doesn't matter if the kids are not @Deebo 's . Legally the kids are his, even if they aren't biologically. You have a very short window for that.
Also at those ages, they are HIS kids, he raise them, so the DNA paper is only good to serve as some sort of divorce leverage, which he is not going for anyways.
There is no plus side on getting DNA. If they are not his, he is still financially involved on them. Also he doesn't need them to show infidelity(but he also is not going this route), he has an actual witness who walked on them.
Just get out, divorce. move on.
Also at those ages, they are HIS kids, he raise them, so the DNA paper is only good to serve as some sort of divorce leverage, which he is not going for anyways.
There is no plus side on getting DNA. If they are not his, he is still financially involved on them. Also he doesn't need them to show infidelity(but he also is not going this route), he has an actual witness who walked on them.
Just get out, divorce. move on.
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What kind of tests are you talking about? Ancestry / 23 and me? Or something else?
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My bad. I totally get that. I have two that are 16, one 14, 13, and 9. Other than the last one, probably could have broken that up a bit.
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That could probably better be handled after the divorce, when things calm down, maybe with a conversation with her. If he can get to a place where they can be honest about the past, he could ask her about the possibilities there, for the good of the kids.
We've gotta remember, even though there's infidelity on her part etc it is in his best interest to keep her from blowing her top in this thing.
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Oh I was assuming a DNA test would not be done in a formal manner or overtly that she would even know about it but just as a knowledge point so that if they aren't he can then decide how he pursues it legally and can make that decision with full information.
I was snipped over 5 years ago and I told my wife that if we ever get pregnant again I still trust her but we will do a DNA test so that there is never a question 10 years later during a fight. She has agreed that this is the most logical way to do it and that since we agreed upon it as part of the process there shouldn't be as much animosity if that day ever comes.
I was snipped over 5 years ago and I told my wife that if we ever get pregnant again I still trust her but we will do a DNA test so that there is never a question 10 years later during a fight. She has agreed that this is the most logical way to do it and that since we agreed upon it as part of the process there shouldn't be as much animosity if that day ever comes.
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She promised him that Bambi's mother wouldn't die. Bitch betrayed him.
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