Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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I've been divorced almost 2 years. My X made almost the exact same as me. I keep the house, she walked with half the equity.

With almost the same mortgage payment and just my income, I've increased my savings/ retirement rate from 6% to low 20%, few months ahead on my mortgage and an actual emergency fund.

I have no ideas where our money was going...
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Women are bad with money in general. I'm convinced of it. I pay all of our bills and manage all of our investments. I spend approximately 30%-35% of my income a year on expenses to include mortgage/power/food/water/internet/phone/etc. The remaining 65% I invest and always have.

And I still don't want for anything.

My wife makes like $30k less than I do and saves much less despite having no bills of any kind. I don't get it. She spent $2k on a fitness/nutrition program I told her was fucking retarded and I would not support spending a single red cent on it. To which she got super pissed that I didn't support her in this retardation. Well no shit all of that guys bullshit is free on youtube or whatever. She did it because all of her retarded friends do. The, "trainer" is some faggot in Spain who guides them all on zoom and discord. Pretty sweet scam on his part.

When we do have kids and if she decides to not work I told her she's in for a rude awakening as I will not tolerate any of that bullshit.

I get pretty annoyed with her attitude about arguing. I absolutely hate being angry and fighting. Especially so over dumb shit. While she is direct about it she much prefers me being angry and yelling and fighting over whatever to just deal with stuff it isn't really in my usual nature. Guess it's an East European mentality. I've resigned myself to my fate that I just have to force her to do what I want and that for some reason she likes it that way.
 
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TJT said:
Women are bad with money in general. I'm convinced of it. I pay all of our bills and manage all of our investments. I spend approximately 30%-35% of my income a year on expenses to include mortgage/power/food/water/internet/phone/etc. The remaining 65% I invest and always have.

And I still don't want for anything.

My wife makes like $30k less than I do and saves much less despite having no bills of any kind. I don't get it. She spent $2k on a fitness/nutrition program I told her was fucking retarded and I would not support spending a single red cent on it. To which she got super pissed that I didn't support her in this retardation. Well no shit all of that guys bullshit is free on youtube or whatever. She did it because all of her retarded friends do. The, "trainer" is some faggot in Spain who guides them all on zoom and discord. Pretty sweet scam on his part.

When we do have kids and if she decides to not work I told her she's in for a rude awakening as I will not tolerate any of that bullshit.

I get pretty annoyed with her attitude about arguing. I absolutely hate being angry and fighting. Especially so over dumb shit. While she is direct about it she much prefers me being angry and yelling and fighting over whatever to just deal with stuff it isn't really in my usual nature. Guess it's an East European mentality. I've reconciled myself to my fate that I just have to force her to do what I want and that for some reason she likes it that way.
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Mine is Mexican and the exact same fucking thing.

I hate fighting and arguing, every time I hit the wall, and jump down her throat over stupid shit she turns into the sweetest dick sucking machine on Earth.

I hate having to do it. Rather things just be fucking easy
 
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TJT said:
Women are bad with money in general. I'm convinced of it. I pay all of our bills and manage all of our investments. I spend approximately 30%-35% of my income a year on expenses to include mortgage/power/food/water/internet/phone/etc. The remaining 65% I invest and always have.

And I still don't want for anything.

My wife makes like $30k less than I do and saves much less despite having no bills of any kind. I don't get it. She spent $2k on a fitness/nutrition program I told her was fucking retarded and I would not support spending a single red cent on it. To which she got super pissed that I didn't support her in this retardation. Well no shit all of that guys bullshit is free on youtube or whatever. She did it because all of her retarded friends do. The, "trainer" is some faggot in Spain who guides them all on zoom and discord. Pretty sweet scam on his part.

When we do have kids and if she decides to not work I told her she's in for a rude awakening as I will not tolerate any of that bullshit.

I get pretty annoyed with her attitude about arguing. I absolutely hate being angry and fighting. Especially so over dumb shit. While she is direct about it she much prefers me being angry and yelling and fighting over whatever to just deal with stuff it isn't really in my usual nature. Guess it's an East European mentality. I've reconciled myself to my fate that I just have to force her to do what I want and that for some reason she likes it that way.
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Let me give you a little advice.

Work out the finance stuff before you bring kids into a mess. Do not wait until she stops working to lay down some hammer on her.
 
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Let me give you a little advice.

Work out the finance stuff before you bring kids into a mess. Do not wait until she stops working to lay down some hammer on her.
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It ain't really that. She successfully saved $60k cash and we bought an apartment in Kiev, Ukraine as this was one of her life goals. Middle of downtown too. My gift to her was paying for the remodel which was like $5k. I have her maxing out her work's 401k and everything but she has zero personal bills of any kind otherwise as I pay for all of it.

Since that goal has been met she has been more frivolous that she's been historically.
 
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This was correct.

So I did end up sleeping with her not the next time she came over, but the following time and pretty much everything she said added up. From talking to her she said I was only the second guy she had ever slept with at 27 and she certainly acted the part. Not only that but she knew practically nothing about sex, she didnt even know common terms for body parts(shes from China).

But thats where it pretty much ends. So she is Chinese born and raised in China. Shes been here in the US on a temporary visa and temporary certification working as a teacher for the past year. Unfortunately she ended up not passing a test that was required to get her teaching certification here in AZ and wouldnt be to try again before her visa expires next month. So she made plans to go back to China when that happened and that was pretty much it. Ive talked to her off and on since, might take her to the grand canyon before she leaves.

Overall an interesting experience, meeting a woman so sexually inexperienced at her age in this day and age.
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It’s pretty comon with chinese women. Family sends them abroad to find a partner. Mate married one of them. I don’t know how he puts up with it. A man needs to have an experienced and sexually demanding partner. Can’t live with that passive, sack of potato, no-kink, no dirty talking real doll missionary. Shrug.
 
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It’s pretty comon with chinese women. Family sends them abroad to find a partner. Mate married one of them. I don’t know how he puts up with it. A man needs to have an experienced and sexually demanding partner. Can’t live with that passive, sack of potato, no-kink, no dirty talking real doll missionary. Shrug.
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If she can ccok and clean and not spend herself into debt the boring sex would be just fine. That can be worked on over time. Just encourage her to enjoy her body.
 
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A man needs to have an experienced and sexually demanding partner. Can’t live with that passive, sack of potato, no-kink, no dirty talking real doll missionary. Shrug.
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Thats what was odd, even as inexperienced as she was she was very interested in talking about sex, watching porn, tryings out etc. She was pretty open minded about it once we had sex.
 
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Thats what was odd, even as inexperienced as she was she was very interested in talking about sex, watching porn, tryings out etc. She was pretty open minded about it once we had sex.
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I think she has motivation. Enjoy it nonetheless.
 
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Big Phoenix said:
This was correct.

So I did end up sleeping with her not the next time she came over, but the following time and pretty much everything she said added up. From talking to her she said I was only the second guy she had ever slept with at 27 and she certainly acted the part. Not only that but she knew practically nothing about sex, she didnt even know common terms for body parts(shes from China).

But thats where it pretty much ends. So she is Chinese born and raised in China. Shes been here in the US on a temporary visa and temporary certification working as a teacher for the past year. Unfortunately she ended up not passing a test that was required to get her teaching certification here in AZ and wouldnt be to try again before her visa expires next month. So she made plans to go back to China when that happened and that was pretty much it. Ive talked to her off and on since, might take her to the grand canyon before she leaves.

Overall an interesting experience, meeting a woman so sexually inexperienced at her age in this day and age.
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Careful. Sounds like she's considering using you as a pathway into the country permanently.
 
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It’s pretty comon with chinese women. Family sends them abroad to find a partner. Mate married one of them. I don’t know how he puts up with it. A man needs to have an experienced and sexually demanding partner. Can’t live with that passive, sack of potato, no-kink, no dirty talking real doll missionary. Shrug.
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Agreed it's very common in chinese women. They are however (generally):

-Good cooks (if your chinese woman isn't, get a fucking refund)
-Good moms
-Good with money.
-Good with keeping the house in order

In my older age i'll take average sex that can be worked on over crazy in the sac that will kill your pet rabbit and make your life hell.

I know there's a lot of shades of women in between, but really as i grow older good companionship and parental values trumps sex appeal.
 
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Careful. Sounds like she's considering using you as a pathway into the country permanently.
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Nah, shes flying back to China first week of July. She was supposed to already have left but her first flight as canceled.
 
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Agreed it's very common in chinese women. They are however (generally):

-Good cooks (if your chinese woman isn't, get a fucking refund)
-Good moms
-Good with money.
-Good with keeping the house in order

In my older age i'll take average sex that can be worked on over crazy in the sac that will kill your pet rabbit and make your life hell.

I know there's a lot of shades of women in between, but really as i grow older good companionship and parental values trumps sex appeal.
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Every single mind-blowing sexual experience I've ever had has been with women who were absolutely nuts. Some of them manifested the crazy earlier than others, or had a different variation of crazy(daddy issues, self-harm, baby daddy drama, etc.), but they were universally off their rockers.

Every single "normal" woman I've dated or had sex with has been worse than beating off to completely average(at best).
 
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If you fuck the crazy out of them the sex is still amazing.
 
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Careful though, not every crazy woman is good in the sack. I dated a legitimate crazy girl in highschool that was absolutely a dead fish.

She even went into a home for awhile after we broke up.
 
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Careful though, not every crazy woman is good in the sack. I dated a legitimate crazy girl in highschool that was absolutely a dead fish.

She even went into a home for awhile after we broke up.
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My ex was the same. It was a bit frustrating because if I talked about sex with her she was up for basically anything but when it came to actual sex nothing, would just lay there and let me do 99% of the work. If she was on all fours she wouldnt put any thought into her leg/hip placement and would just put her head down. Never received a single complete blowjob during the course of that relationship.
 
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