Well, all done. Officially divorced once the order shows up in the mail. Took maybe 15min. I'm keeping all my shit and the house, we just have to get it appraised and I'll buy him out his half of the value. He's got 30 days to get his name off the deed and we're all set. Feels a bit anti-climactic, but I'm just relieved it's done and over. It still really hurts losing Bruce, but I'm not sure this could have gone any more smoothly than it did and I'm satisfied with the outcome. I guess now I just have to figure out what all to do next.