Marriage and the Power of Divorce

Mrs. Gravy

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Cad said:
Serious question though, what is it about a "new person" that makes them better than the person you're with that makes thinking/fantasizing about sex with others desirable?
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No - that is not what I mean. I am saying that I find other people sexually desirable not MORE desirable. I have emotional strings; I have the desire to please my partner above all others and to the exclusion of all others. I just meant to indicate that my sexuality is alive and well and that it is going all-in with my man.
 
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Mrs. Gravy said:
No - that is not what I mean. I am saying that I find other people sexually desirable not MORE desirable. I have emotional strings; I have the desire to please my partner above all others and to the exclusion of all others. I just meant to indicate that my sexuality is alive and well and that it is going all-in with my man.
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What I mean is what is it thats sexy about a "new partner" that makes it desirable to fantasize about? Assuming this person is unknown and it's just a new, unknown person, what is sexy about that? It's not a judgment question I'm just curious about it.
 
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We have a 27 year old in my office right now that is clearly fawning over me. She invited me to lunch last week and when I told her I bought my lunch she went down and bought lunch, brought it back and asked if she could eat with me. Lol. I was like sure. Then she comes in and shuts the door to my office...
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When she starts sending you nudes, be sure to get her to write FOH on her tits and post them here before you fire her.
 
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Khane

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Cad said:
What I mean is what is it thats sexy about a "new partner" that makes it desirable to fantasize about? Assuming this person is unknown and it's just a new, unknown person, what is sexy about that? It's not a judgment question I'm just curious about it.
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That's why they call it fantasizing. You're filling in the blanks and connecting the dots with your own imagination. You know about your partner, there is nothing surprising. With an unknown person you are imagining what they'll be like. Some people have more vivid imaginations than others.

The reality hardly ever fits the fantasy but that's not the point. If you have a muted imagination you won't really understand it.
 
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Mrs. Gravy

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Cad said:
What I mean is what is it thats sexy about a "new partner" that makes it desirable to fantasize about? Assuming this person is unknown and it's just a new, unknown person, what is sexy about that? It's not a judgment question I'm just curious about it.
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I didn't take it as you judging, I am aware of your inquisitive nature.
Remember please, that my attention to my sexual self was placed on a back burner for over a decade. I forgot the stirrings in me from the most basic biological aspects. I was too busy keeping the love of my life alive.
I think it is just part of my evolution...to remember that part of me...to see what I hadn't for all those years which is that I am sexually and otherwise desirable. I am pretty sure me finding people attractive is a healthy and typical response. I am not acting on it or even taking it further than a fleeting moment of eye contact or using it on the many days that Steady and I are not together. We have busy often conflicting schedules and our own homes that are about an hour apart. I use fantasy for self pleasure...new lover, old lovers, pretend lovers.

God, I like this place and the examination of myself because of the questions posed. Seriously, thank you.
 
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moonarchia

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Cad said:
What I mean is what is it thats sexy about a "new partner" that makes it desirable to fantasize about? Assuming this person is unknown and it's just a new, unknown person, what is sexy about that? It's not a judgment question I'm just curious about it.
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Simply the unknown aspect of it. Mystery is a powerful motivator for the human species. Especially the members of it who use their brains.
 
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Eidal

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I dunno maybe I'm a closet faggot but I don't really desire NSA 1 night stand sex at all. I'm pretty sure if my wife suddenly was abducted by aliens that I'd find another long term steady very quickly. People are annoying and finding one that doesn't annoy you is important.
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You're probably more in tune with the potential consequences of the hypothetical NSA turns into "not as NSA as you originally believed..."

I'll go out on a limb and propose that there is a correlation between "catastrophic train wreck of a life" and wanton promiscuity.
 
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Eidal said:
I'll go out on a limb and propose that there is a correlation between "catastrophic train wreck of a life" and wanton promiscuity.
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As an intelligent species I believe we have a duty to test this theory. Let the fuck fest begin!
 
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So it's my birthday, wife's a caterer, and someone posted Beef Wellington in one of the food porn derails (think it was politics), and she is making it for my birthday dinner. Hell to the yes.
 
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You're probably more in tune with the potential consequences of the hypothetical NSA turns into "not as NSA as you originally believed..."

I'll go out on a limb and propose that there is a correlation between "catastrophic train wreck of a life" and wanton promiscuity.
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I will literally fuck almost anything on this earth and I have my shit pretty well put together.
 
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