I can only speak for myself and several friends with whom I have had this discussion. The answer is: absofuckinglutely.
One of my best friends is currently married to a person who is NOT a good father, he is not a good husband. it is a very long and convoluted story and I have supported her in her attempts to save her marriage. She is tired after the last several years of trying. She is ready to go. She has basically been a single parent for 8 years anyway.
She is cute AF and will have no trouble finding men who want her...we already know several...but highest on her panty sharing list right now are men who are good dads.
RL me is pretty much exactly like FOH me. Courteous, responsible and very handsome.
I'm exactly the same way as I am in real life.
Handsome.
Goddamnit Soy.
I also have good timing IRL.
Gotta let it go man. Shes a whore and gonna do whore things, don't let her destroy the rest of your life.Im starting to lose my shit this morning. I'm fucking frustrated and depressed. She stayed at his place last night, she came home at 5 am this morning. She tried to go to bed, and I was getting up to go to the gym before work. Instead of punching the fuck out of her cheating whore face I just resorted to being an asshole, turned on all the lights turned the tv on loud, sat in bed ate my toast and peanut butter and sipped my pre workout loud as fuck. Childish? Sure I didnt fucking care. Come home after fucking him and expect to just go to bed like nothings wrong.
I just got to work, im fucking having a mini panic attack and shit. Im a fucking mess. I told her I was sorry for being an assole, and that im super frustrated and depressed and whatever she was planning to do to make me feel like shit is working, so I hope shes happy with herself.. But she will spin it to everyone to make it out to be the victim here. She already is and has been.
This. Do you want kids who are passive aggressive assholes who hate their parents? This is how out happens....and the children were where at the time of each of your behaviors? Good parents do not act so selfishly and recklessly...both of you.
Seriously, what do you think your children are learning from each of you right now...and do you think it is a good life lesson for them?
I am sorry for your pain, I am disheartened that you are experiencing such turmoil, but you are an adult. You have the ability to seek resolution and to think more abstractly. They do not.
If you think your life has been unfair you can choose to change it, to make it better...beginning today...in each moment. Please choose better for them.
That is a damn fine quality to add to the new you.
I'm an asshole. Oh wait I am in real life too
Deebo you should really talk to a lawyer. I don't know what your financial situation is like, but this should be a high priority, even if you're in debt, put it on a credit card. If you aren't willing to do that, it seems like you will just be stuck in this cycle of having her fuck someone else, then "come to her senses" and return to you until that is boring and she goes off and does it again. She knows how to play the victim and she doesn't give a fuck about what this is doing to you. The sooner you can get out the better.
That one is just a fat chick. Of course she's gonna pull out all of the stops.Decision was made. There ain't no coming back from that.
Relish in the fact tinder has empowered so many women to be true feminists.
(Friend who recently got divorced loves to send me this BS all the time -- he understands its not a permanent lifestyle but man, its at least fun)
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I had to look up that acronym...the MGTOW one not the smh.Three years later this thread became MGTOW in all but name.
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I shall do no such thing. You are on my list of posters who were kind to G or to me during our dark time. We don't have to agree on things to be companions on this journey.I'm humble salt farmer, Mrs. Gravy. Ignore me, most of the board does. Your husband was a good man.