Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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Divorce finalized today, I’m officially single again. Disappointing and retarded situation but the future looks very good from where I’m sitting. Career still going extremely well with an average of 2 raises per year, and I’m finally making progress on the game dev front.

Zero desire to date, not sure if/when that will change. Not too terribly concerned about it honestly.
Any child support or alimony, or was it split finances and go separate ways?

Either way, sorry it happened. Glad you weren't destroyed by it.
 
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Seananigans

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Any child support or alimony, or was it split finances and go separate ways?

Either way, sorry it happened. Glad you weren't destroyed by it.

Nah no lingering stuff other than the judgment against her to pay half the shared debt to me (I pay it in full to clear it from our shared names).
 
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Tarrant

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Kind of why I posted here to get your guys' perspective with mine and make sure I wasn't just being retarded. I do still feel a little guilty for being yet another statistic, though.

Everyones a statistic in something, don't let this be the one that gets you down. Choosing to move on from a bad situation and for your eventual happiness isn't something to be upset with.
 
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Izo

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Divorce finalized today, I’m officially single again.
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Grats on moving on, Sir.
 
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Ishad

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Kind of why I posted here to get your guys' perspective with mine and make sure I wasn't just being retarded. I do still feel a little guilty for being yet another statistic, though.
I think every normal person feels some sort of shame or guilt as if divorce is some sort of personal or moral failure. You can’t keep a marriage together through your own will, it still takes two people.
 
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Tarrant

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I think every normal person feels some sort of shame or guilt as if divorce is some sort of personal or moral failure. You can’t keep a marriage together through your own will, it still takes two people.
Yep. Almost 20 years later I still feel sad about my first divorce. It sucks, honestly, but it’s how it works I guess.
 
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