I’m a big fan of butt stuff, giving and receiving. If a girl wants to put her finger up my ass while blowing me, go for it, ‘cause that shit will make me cum in like 30 seconds.
Likewise I’ve went out with several women who want their ass fingered in doggy because it helps them cum or they otherwise couldn’t. I’ll gladly lick a girl’s ass too.
I’ll find most women are usually benign about their ass being fingered and will say “eh, it feels good, but I could do without it,” while a smaller amount will not be into it at all. The first time I fuck any girl I’ll usually go straight for playing with their ass at some point without asking and rarely get complaints but some will reach their hand around and gently swat my hand away. The 23 year old I’m seeing is not into it and removed my hand when I tried.
That said — anal sex itself I don’t give much thought to. Honestly it feels no better than pussy and I don’t particularly get anything out of it. I’ve dated some women who absolutely demand it but they are by far the minority. If the girl wants it and demands it I’ll do it, but I never push for anal. I went out with exactly one woman who wanted it more regularly than vaginal, and we never used lube. Her ass was always moist enough to fuck without anything. She asked for anal the first time we ever met up. This same chick I could not cum fucking her for the life of me as her pussy was always too wet and gave no friction, and her ass didn’t do it for me either. She also wanted sex so frequently to the point I’d stop being interested in it and annoyed by her advances.
Speaking of your tail thing, if you’re fucking a girl doggy and finger her ass you can push down and feel it on your dick which is mildly amusing.
