Marriage and the Power of Divorce

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It was fine. One of her friends insisted on paying for lunch for everyone, which was over $200. So I insisted on paying for karaoke. It was $140 for two hours. No big deal but I had no idea it was that much to rent a lil karaoke room.

Hatorade said:

Wife is back, all is well. Honestly aside from a few chores not getting done as timely it was a non event. I have enough hobbies I filled all my free time with those, was kinda nice not having to plan anything aside from what I wanted to do.

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Did you sniff her pussy?

Deathwing said:

She does like that. She won't admit it, but I'm pretty sure she likes rape fantasies. The problem is that without the "committee", I have problems reading clues that that's what she wants. If those clues were there, I'd count that as participation. I'll admit I might be a dumbass and missing some clues. But, if she came to me later, called me a dumbass, and said I missed XYZ, I wouldn't be here.

She's a sub to a T, and I think she's gotten it in her head that means she can't be forward or proactive at all.

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What I would do is I would start trying random things. Ramp it up until she shows you her limits. Watch porn and do whatever they do. Butt stuff. Nipple clamps. Another woman. Electricity. Wait, electricity might be dangerous so don't do that unless you're willing to learn about it. Don't be afraid to get messy. You might not be totally into some of it, but when you're a pleaser you're just looking for what gives your partner maximum pleasure. But also tell her what you're doing so she doesn't just endure it because she thinks you want to do it.

Jackie Treehorn said:

So I insisted on paying for karaoke. It was $140 for two hours.

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Alex said:

That's pretty damn expensive. I think I've paid around $40/hour for a six person room here in the city. But I haven't done it in years.

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what the fuck? You have to rent a karaoke room? I thought the whole point of it was to inflict your godawful singing voice on a bunch of strangers. That must be a san fran thing. I've never even heard of paying for karaoke around here other than maybe a cover charge or drink minimum.

Hoss said:

what the fuck? You have to rent a karaoke room? I thought the whole point of it was to inflict your godawful singing voice on a bunch of strangers. That must be a san fran thing. I've never even heard of paying for karaoke around here other than maybe a cover charge or drink minimum.

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This is different…I think it’s something that originated in Korea or Japan. Definitely popular with Asians.

Google private karaoke room. Basically imagine a hallway with lots of rooms. Each one inside has a couch or couches, a TV, wireless mics, and a karaoke system. And you can press a button to order drinks and some have food I think. The rooms are all decorated kinda fancy and it’s supposed to be something you cram like 5-10 people into and just split the cost.

I can’t sing for shit. It’s amusing if the people you’re with can.

Jackie Treehorn said:

Google private karaoke room. Basically imagine a hallway with lots of rooms. Each one inside has a couch or couches, a TV, wireless mics, and a karaoke system. And you can press a button to order drinks and some have food I think. The rooms are all decorated kinda fancy and it’s supposed to be something you cram like 5-10 people into and just split the cost.

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That sounds like private rooms intended for fucking. I bet there's a lot of fucking going on in there.

Hoss said:

That sounds like private rooms intended for fucking. I bet there's a lot of fucking going on in there.

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I literally thought the same thing. I’m like there’s no way people aren’t fucking in these things.

moonarchia said:

No, that's just more traditional Chinese folk music.

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The one woman’s 12 year old daughter who spoke Chinese and fluent English just kept saying “please kill me” and kept hilariously commenting on the songs. Most of them unsurprisingly were maudlin love songs with like three upbeat songs at best. She was like “why are these people all so depressed.”

People are definitely fucking in these things.

There are bars in northern San Antonio that have the same setup. Kind of fun, especially if you have people who want to cut loose but are too embarrassed to sing in front of strangers. Thats expensive for sure, though. My home setup was about 400 plus a computer to set up with four mics and a board (runs through my surround stereo and already had a media PC in the main rack) so three rentals and they pay for the gear (but not the spooged up couch).

Fogel said:

Bring a black light with you next time

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Do you really want to know if you are sitting in pecker tracks or would you prefer to remain blissfully ignorant?

Alex said:

Yeah these are all in Japantown. There are a couple scattered elsewhere but they're more common there.

There are plenty of typical public karaoke spots too. But the private rooms can be fun with the server and all that.

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We went to one in Fremont, or near Fremont. I see they’re in San Jose and Dublin as well.