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If you are secure in the bond you have with someone else "taking a break" is a healthy andeven mandatory event. That sounds a little stronger than "sometimes" happens.

yeah, she"s definitely a virgin. She is 19, sophomore at college, so it"s not crazy for her to still be a virgin. She has only had one boyfriend, back in high school with some foreign exchange student. It"s really just the masturbation thing that"s blowing my mind.

I"ve got a new one. Been seeing this girl for maybe a month now, she slept over for the first time this weekend. Sadly I did not get to visit her downstairs. I don"t really remember how this conversation went exactly, but it began with me asking her if she was a virgin (she is, which is what I...

Think you missed the joke, Tenks was taking a shot at Tarrant.

Thought I said I wasn"t going to just wait around for her... in fact I"m pretty sure I"ve already made out with some chick at a party... We weren"t really that close yet, only been dating for like a month, saw each other a couple of times a week. I"m not really attached to her, I"m honestly...

While I agree with everyone else on not waiting around, this just doesn"t sound right to me. I know the excuses she gave me are true (I know her work schedule, I knew about her step-dad before we started dating and that the case would be going to court soon). I don"t get the feeling that she is...

Brad, that sounds pretty fucked up. So I"ve got my own issue. The girl I"d been dating for about a month decided she wanted to take a break. It"s pretty understandable why, she"s being overworked at her job, still goes to school as a fulltime student, but the big reason is that her step-dad"s...

I edited my post to include the backstory, sorry about that.

Think you are mixing me up with another poster, and I don"t know if it matters, but she didn"t hand me her drink, she stuck her straw into my mouth.

Backstory: I have a friend who I had a pretty big crush on all of last year, and I"m pretty sure she had a crush on me (at least for a while). I was a huge pussy back then and did nothing about it, just stayed friends. I had pretty much avoided her this semester b/c I felt awkward around her...

I don"t know how I feel about "kissing her no matter what" next time we hang out. I"d certainly like to, but I don"t think I have the balls to just kiss her if I don"t get some strong signals that she wants to. But if not the next time we see each other, we will both be going to the same party...

Let"s try and steer this away from people just reaming on each other. I have a friend who I had a pretty big crush on all of last year, and I"m pretty sure she had a crush on me (at least for a while). I was a huge pussy back then and did nothing about it, just stayed friends. I had pretty...

So, I had been dealing with my break up pretty well up until about half an hour ago. Just found out that my ex has another boyfriend, a guy that she had hung out with while we were dating. I also know they had spent halloween together, which was like a week after we broke up. I don"t know if...

I did it because my ex absolutely abuses facebook, she"d have upwards of 10 status updates a day and takes way too many pictures of herself. I"d just rather not be bombarded by every little thing that is going on in her life, it just makes it easier to not think about her. As to not letting...

So I talked with my ex and things did not go well. I told her I couldn"t be friends with her, not while I still have feeling for her. She kept pushing the whole friends thing the whole time, said she thought of me as somebody who she could talk to about anything and that she didn"t want to lose...

Ok, I"m gonna try to elaborate on the break up some. Apparently, the conversation was supposed to just be about how our relationship wasn"t what it used to be, and she had wanted to talk about it and what we should do. Me, being insecure, thought she wanted to break up with me. So, I tried to...

Yeah, I pretty much figured that breaking all contact with her is the right course of action. No worries about being the psycho-ex, it"s not like I"ve been sending her text after text, but from now on no more texts. Kinda feel like a dick, especially if she does really want to be friends, but...

So my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. It was kinda weird, we didn"t break up for any specific reason, the relationship wasn"t even bad, it just wasn"t as good as it was. When we were talking about it, I got the feeling that she was breaking up with me so I pretty much gave in and agreed...

While I agree with all of your post, I just want to clarify this point. I know a lot of my feelings are due to her being my first and that sex is still new to me. I was responding to the idea that I was merely looking forward to having sex, but I"m not. I do actually like her, it"s not just the...

Thank you for that, makes a lot of sense and isn"t so depressing. We have slept together (she was my first, I wasn"t hers) so I can honestly say it"s not about the sex. I"ve got nothing else to say really, my original question was my only real question, everything else is going pretty damn well...

Ok, so I will admit I don"t like him for the obvious reason that he is the ex, but I still think objectively that she was out of his league. She doesn"t hate on him really, they are still friends, she just says that he was too controlling as a boyfriend. The only times she has complained about...

She broke up with her last boyfriend towards the beginning of the summer (was an 8 month relationship). The dude is a controlling douche, was accusing her of cheating on him because she would be IM"ing multiple people and not instantly responding to him. So she didn"t really get burned, she even...

No, I"m not that desperate, I have been trying to stay below her interest level. I"ve been reading this thread for a long time and am finally using the advice, and it"s been working pretty well so far. Big thanks to all the people who have contributed to this thread.

What can I say, I"m pretty damn awesome. The "I love you" has always been said drunk, so I don"t put much into them. But yeah, she did take my v-card. Trust me when I say I"m in no rush to say it as it scares the poop out of me, the idea of putting myself out there so far. I just really had...

That"s what the thinking part of me says, and why I am hesitant to say it. But a couple of things need to be clarified. We have had sex, and she has been in a few long relationships (one for 2 years, one for 8 months last year). I have no doubt that this being my first real relationship plays a...

Ok, so this is a bit of a different question/situation than most of the thread, but I think it still fits. Bit of a backstory first, I"ve been with my girlfriend for about 6 weeks now. We are both college sophomores and she is my first real girlfriend. We both really like and care for each...

Seriously? Not to take focus off of the crotch rocket club, but it sounds like you"re a pussy who bought a gun.

The other forum is asleep and hasn"t noticed our recent efforts. Apparently white knighting combined with jacking it to brooke"s pic is exhausting.