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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Actually something both guys and girls do, and as far as tricking someone into conception it isn"t that uncommon a strategy. Though "the condom slipped off" is probably more common for guys.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Getting a girl to orgasm can be really difficult. 80% of women can"t cum from penetration alone (that number varies quite a bit depending on how "penetration" is defined. Some earlier studies counted the fact that penetration often stimulates the internal part of the clitoris, it isn"t just that...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Are there people who don"t do this? O.o I"ve never really paid attention. That is standard etiquette by the standards I was raised by.... Talk to people in class. Right. "Force myself" is definitely the right phrasing.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"ve read the books, even the parts we"re not covering, for all my classes. I"m roughly three weeks ahead on my homework. I never went to college before so these are just general ed credits, I just need to prove I know stuff that I"ve known for years. Maybe in a couple of years when I get to new...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hell, so after my last relationship I made some life changes and am going back to school. I"m 26 (27 in November) in classes with 18-22 year olds and I hate partying. I"m taking enough units that school is going to be basically where I spend most of my time. Help.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    In Brad"s defense it is traditional etiquette to return love letters if a relationship ended, and from some off-hand remarks Brad has made throughout his posts in this thread I"d bet money one of his parents, probably his Mother, believed in an older school of etiquette.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I remember that! She probably just got dumped. Clearly if she"s serious about winning you back you can get her to put FoHSS on her tits. You"ll never know when you need currency like that.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, presumably that means she has her own place, so really the only key is communication. Her calling or texting that she wants to be alone to recharge. Or just encourage her to turn off her phone. I know a lot of people, particularly girls, feel like they"re being rude if their phone is off...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You can pretty much stop at the "I" in the Myers-Briggs spectrum and people will be like that. Introverts need to be alone to recharge, even from spending time with people they really care about. Best advice if you marry a girl like that: get her a room (not the kitchen :-p) that is just hers...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Before I asked my ex-fiancee to marry me, I asked her Dad"s permission. It worked out really well because one of her sisters had also gotten engaged recently, and the guy hadn"t asked permission.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Worth noting that studies of marriages from the 50s have results like 2/3 of people say their marriage is above-average in terms of how happy they are, but more then half of the women say if they had to do it all over again they might not still pick their current partner. Marriage to them was...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Spoilered for length. If this speech, by quite honestly one of the greatest American Patriots it has ever been my pleasure to pee on (I was 2, I concede), doesn"t immediately convince you that in that situation you would have done exactly what Brad did, there isn"t any hope for you. Spoiler...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No, I pay for everything. Both our names actually are on the lease, but that isn"t what is stopping me. No kids. She just literally doesn"t have any place to go. We only own one car (not even paid off yet), and she has almost no money that is hers. She has been looking for a job in the city...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So what is the appropriate response when you support someone for 4 years on the expectation that you"re going to spend your lives together, you start having problems, go to therapy, and then she leaves you for another guy she talks to on the phone every night? Who she has phone sex with, moaning...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Because he agonized over asking her out for like a month or more. He was really into her. Grats Ronaan! Nice to hear about the successes after the failures.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"ve had a successful long distance relationship, been living together for 5 years now, had to live apart for a year and a half. Ido notrecommend it. Even if you pull it off, that time sucks. If I wasn"t convinced this girl was "the one" I wouldn"t have put up with it.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The irony here being that the quote is all spelled perfectly, and misspell does not have a hyphen.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It isn"t about the guy (any guy), it is about the girl. Being a little jealous is fine, girls think it is cute in small doses anyway, but the fundamental question is "Do you trust her?" After only a month there should be some definite hesitation imo, but you absolutely don"t want to indicate...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    ? The hormone part of the "honeymoon stage" can last up to two years if we"re talking about brain chemistry.... why you get all those people who say you should date for at least a year, then be engaged for at least a year, before you get married. Though sometimes it tapers off in ~6 weeks, so...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Sounds like Becka didn"t have a back-up guy because she thought the current one didn"t have enough backbone to leave, despite her probably high rate of bullshit. Now that she knows he isn"t locked down she"ll probably leave as soon as she finds a viable alternative. Or, less likely, she...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No.. the 99.99% number is because scientists never really like to claim a drug is 100% anything, even if they were legally allowed to (they aren"t). There has not been a single case of pregnancy over thousands of clinical trials with any modern BC pill. Hormones are not unique and beautiful snow...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This actually isn"t true, couples who use anal as BC method have an 8% failure rate due to splash conception. Brekk is right about BC only failing because of human error. Though if Tarrant had that happen to him with one girl, it is understandable he wouldn"t trust another one to take her...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Wait, why is this the right decision? I can completely understand using condoms as a method of birth control, but doubling up with them when she is already on the pill or something is ridiculous. Added expense, less pleasure, she already let you do it without condoms. Is there an upside here for...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    He"s afraid you are putting a cat on a pillar.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Step 1: Tell the girl you"re interested in primarily that the relationship means a lot to you, and does she want to be exclusive? We"ll assume she says yes. Step 2: Tell the other people you"re dating, who are well aware this wasn"t exclusive because you"re both adults and spelled that out at...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    wow, wtf at that video.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, this is the "Girls who Broke your Heart Thread" he"s talking about the girl who broke his part, just updating us every time something happens between them. But it has been... what? Three weeks between posts? He obviously isn"t dwelling on it to much. And hell, he"s dating. I went 6-12...
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    I have the same issue Eomer. I really wanted a 10, good looking girls are everywhere in California so growing up it was just the standard I came to expect. But someone I can"t hold a conversation with, or is disrespectful, crazy, etc., fuck having to live in the same house as that for the rest...
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    That sucks Chaotic. :-\ Self-control is just hard for some people. I think part of it is certain cultures just value emotional out bursts differently. Being "fiery" is attractive in Latin cultures, especially for a woman, the problem is it can cross over into "jealous possessive tempter...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Have you looked at OKCupid? I"ve heard good things about it.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    My girl and I are learning a language together (Japanese) because we plan on going to Japan for our Honeymoon. She also sews and we"ll discuss around the house projects while cuddling (like drapes she"s making). I"ll suggest colors etc., I mean, you live in the house to, you have to have some...
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    Denizens of FOH I call upon thee!

    What? Fuck that, you can easily auto-end voting. If there was a predetermined end-time they should go off what the stats were at that time. This whole thing is total BS.
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    Denizens of FOH I call upon thee!

    I"m sure she was kidding, she works in the medical field. She just thought they looked "sucked dry" so to speak and I found it amusing enough to repeat.
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    Denizens of FOH I call upon thee!

    62% You think she breast fed her kids? My girlfriend said they looked deflated and now she"s afraid our kids will do that to her!
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    1.) I believe I have, actually. 2.) I did, and now that I have I"m very happy. 3.) My answer to this is kind of different. Neither of us believe sexual singularity is necessary to a trusting relationship. We"ve never "cheated" on each other because monogamy was never part of the deal, though...
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    Denizens of FOH I call upon thee!

    Voted, 54.6% in the lead.
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    Deathwalker Plans 26 Boxing WoW

    Sam won"t touch that. There we go.
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    Deathwalker Plans 26 Boxing WoW

    He posted about it one point, he owns property that he rents. Given his name is associated with a construction company, he"s probably some sort of commercial or housing developer. How he got the money initially to get into that, I don"t know.