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  1. K

    Seriously just fix fucking site already

    Peace out. You can find me at our locale as... Dumar
  2. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I liked this post. Wanna get some wings and play EQ later, bro?
  3. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Nope, engineer by education, consulting by career. I really am an architect!
  4. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh absolutely not. This is far from mental masturbation. If you"re concerned about real mental health of an individual as it pertainsto realityandnot conformity, you should be out gathering textbooks I"ll suggest you read, especially as a supposed psychologist, not posting advice on strategies...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Want to know why it"s depressing? Because people are so alienated from their own lives, from your own humanity, that even getting a glimpse of it greatly upsets people. It"s like the fascination people have driving by a terrible car accident; it puts people a little closer to life and death...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I really don"t know why you think this. I"m only trying to offer as wide and as truthful a perspective as possible, nothing to do with jacking anything. These are the kinda things you should be thinking about when it comes to your relationships, not how to manipulate them.
  7. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Just saw this, but please refer to my previous novel-ish post for a more thorough response. I understand them very well, thank you. And you"re missing the entire point -what if the community itself is sick? Pathological. My brain goes faster than my fingers on occasion. Feel free, because so...
  8. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It"s interesting how words like having become associated with things like getting sick and being in a relationship. It"s an area of research I"d like to get into. Speaking of, I have to go to work! Do you have a problem with that? The word love is the same way. That word is used so many...
  9. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, I"m trying to help you not be affected by womenz drama. My therapy isn"t working?
  10. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Sorry for the equally long post, but I trust this one is as worth it for everyone. Earthfell explained very well - thanks and it was insightful. But no, I haven"t yet read Bakhtin. I"ll add only a few things. If you haven"t read the literature directly, this topic is very difficult to...
  11. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If you"re studying to be a clinical psychologist, I can give you some advice and literature to read that will help you. Because your profession, especially as it is currently, has fallen very much behind with regards to true psychic needs. The prime indicator of mental health isnotadjustment...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    And then we get to it, to thepathology of normalcy. Is being normal, being adjusted to a society that is mentally sick a healthy state of mind for the individual? Why don"t you read another how-to guide on how to behave in yet another social setting. That way you can be an even better robot...
  13. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    IT"S FULL OF LOVE!~
  14. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The responses show a lack of awareness of the problem. You look at it like modifying your behavior, modifying yourself, to achieve a certain outcome results in abetter individualbecause of that positive outcome. It"s not the case. The outcome isn"t important; the "you" is. What society wants...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    But it"s social conditioning. That"s the problem. "Learning how to interact with others" is a euphemism; it"s cultural and societal patterning onto an individual,and most of those patterns are not conducive to mental health. If you follow articles like that, what are you? Who are you? Where...
  16. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You know there"s a term for putting forth effort in showing no effort? It"s actually a great word that the English language could use.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Anybody that "likes" music itself is a beta male. To be an alpha, you have to not like anything. You"re indifferent about the entire universe. You"re indifferent about being indifferent about the universe. If 600 playboy models broke up with you on the same day, you"d be indifferent. This...
  18. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    A good achievement but pales in comparison to the trolls of old. SUPPORT THE UNBAN CAMPAIGN 2012?
  19. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So you"re unbanning Dumar and Utnayan?
  20. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    YOUR MOM"S HOLE IS TOO WIDE FOR ME BRO, BUT I TRIED MAH BEST
  21. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This needs to be hammered home to no end. Regardless of what you think of women and relationships, ALL women from ALL walks of life see sex in this manner. It may not be a direct reciprocal trade like sex for a car tuneup, but it"s always present in any relationship if you dig down the hole...
  22. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    ... Did I say DC absolutely sucks? I really didn"t mean that. I swear. Would you like to go out sometime? I know a lot of great restaurants in the area.
  23. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Dunno, treat them as such and you get positive results. Don"t ask me why. Ask Jebus. Or Richard.
  24. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Maybe both you and Etoille could go find some perspective somewhere and give each other some advice. It might even be right then!
  25. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Maybe, grats to you if so. Just from what I"ve read, she"s been completely wrong in every area. I wouldn"t listen to her for any advice. More power to you though.
  26. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Sure, whatever makes you feel better. I"m thriving in this town, I assure you. It"s impossible for anyone not to. I can choose something else you"re completely wrong about if NoVa isn"t your thing (which it is for some unfathomable reason).
  27. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Why don"t you tell us more about that fantastic DC food scene. Maybe Cam could take his next date to one of the great NoVA restaurants around? There"s just so many to choose from. Worthless opinion is worthless.
  28. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I would be genuinely insulted.
  29. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Etoille"s an idiot. She"s wrong on literally everything she posts about: games, politics, job hunting, and relationship advice. She thinks NoVA is a good place to live for christ"s sake. Don"t listen to anything she says about, well.. anything.
  30. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Here"s the best advice anyone can give you. Never listen to girls. Never. Got that? Never listen to girls. Act like you"re listening when they"re blah blahing, but when it comes to acting on things they want, need, ask for, desire, et al. simply do not pay attention or act on any of them. I...
  31. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Whore out your mind or whore out your body. Does it matter which?
  32. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh come now. Don"t be naive. Did Revolutionary Road teach you nothing?
  33. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This thread is terrible
  34. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I like to sorta mushroom cloud it out into the sociopsychology of human behavior and how society affects it every now and then. Don"t you wanna know why stupid bitches be stupid?
  35. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    what makes you and your imaginary girlfriends tick, bro.
  36. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That thought was patterned into us long before basements, dwellers or people that dwelt in them. That"s my point about the euphemisms we use to shield ourselves from the real reality. It makes people feel better that they want the nice, pure guy, not the asshole. The question of why or how...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It wasn"t basement dwellers. Basement dwellers can"t be responsible for thought patterning at that mass societal level.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Eomer: No, that"s exactly right. Perhaps I was misunderstood or didn"t explain clearly. Society patterns into girls to consciously think they want a white knight, a nice guy... so much so they may actually believe this themselves. This is a great example of a behavior or thought that is socially...
  39. K

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yes, but the question iswhyif they"ll tell you the very opposite, which then further begs the issue of such a society that patterns into girls they should want something different, love at first sight, et al.