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Seriously, unless this chick just ended an abusive, multi-year relationship, you need to be actively pursuing her. Otherwise, Drinsic is spot on and she"s going to think you"re gay or uninterested or lacking self-confidence. Girls expect you to chase after them. We"ve been doing it for millenia...

No, no, no. Completely wrong attitude. You haven"t really said much about this gal, but if you have any attraction toward her whatsoever, just fucking man up and ask her out. We all joke about you taking a year to figure out if a girl is into you but Jesus, she"s a chick who, even though you...

Good on not responding. I"m saying stay that course. Don"t have The Conversation with her at all. She obviously is taking the hint, and given her rather public reaction to this whole thing, talking to her further can only end badly for you. You are far better off just ignoring her from now...

Guys, this chick is plainly trolling for drama. Unless she starts posting that garbage on his page and explicitly states its directed at him, he"s giving her undue attention by responding at all. And then she can play the stupid, "Oh, I wasn"t talking about you at all card, y u mad?" card if he...

Bravo, gentlemen, bravo. I can feel the wrath building on the horizon. Dabamf probably had to fuck a Korean fatty just to calm himself down before posting his reply. Well done.

Ah, gotcha. Didn"t read your question carefully enough so missed the part about you wanting a chick"s perspective. I have two good friends who decided to accept the inevitable and shave their heads, but they already had wives, so they never had to worry about picking up girls after the fact...

Wear a hat. Or, problem could be you"re trolling vapid, shallow chicks who think they can be ultra-selective. Orrr, since you have disposable income, and if you"re concerned you can"t get chicks because you have a bald dome, look into your alternatives: transplants, Propecia, spray...

This thread, Jesus. Just when you think it"s well and truly dead, or simply running in circles, it explodes. Nothing constructive to add, really. Please keep on keeping on, though, for all of our sake. On the topic of Brad, hopefully he"s not been posting because things have been quiet in...

The Caution: This right here is a prime example of why I always preach to my friends to think long and hard (with their big head) before getting involved with a woman who has a kid(s). I, of course, had to learn this lesson the hard way myself before it really sunk in. The long and short of it...

I have to think that someone was just being a troll. Otherwise, that idea would have to make every Top 10 Worst Dating Mistakes to Make poll ever given. ... which probably means we"ll be hearing about it here soon enough.

I"m glad to see you"ve actually taken heed of the advice given here by lots of guys who have been down the same road before. It"s a pretty rare sight. Unfortunately, you remain right square in the danger zone and you"re definitely nowhere near out of the woods yet, as others have mentioned...

I can"t be the only one who thinks giving used lingerie to his next girlfriend is a terribad idea. If you still have any of her stuff and you"re not planning on incinerating it, just give it back to her. Or do as Tenks said and toss it in the trash.

So I"m morbidly curious to see if she sends this person pictures from Brazil and tells them they"re pictures of Portland. It must be time for another Bond movie because I thought of international spy right away, too. Definitely get the lawyer so at least the local news crew can interview...

Jesus, man, you HAVE learned something from this thread, right? Right? Do not call - I"m going to call her Christine, since "Chuck" always reads like Chunk from the Goonies to me - Christine. Do not text Christine. Do not creep her Facebook or any of that other nonsense. Delete her numbers...

I, too, am sorry it appears things aren"t working out for you. And just because the odds are these days that a relationship won"t work out doesn"t mean people shouldn"t still try to raise a family. I echo Darus"s advice to be prepared. I"m fairly certain you had an attorney representing you...

I wouldn"t do that. It sends her the message that you"re still thinking about her and care enough to worry about a dumb mess she got herself into, and that"s the wrong message you want to send to her. I know the natural reaction is to try and figure out what you did "wrong" in a relationship...

I"m not too sure... Unless he instantly responded to her text asking her out to the next 5 hockey games, I think he has done us proud. If you take her hints, Eomer, it will be interesting to see if she keeps on texting you unprovoked. Not too sure if you"re interested going back down that...

God damn it, get out of my head. I seriously hope he intentionally wrote that.

Congratulations. Be sure to archive this thread for him for future posterity!

^ No snaggleteeth, great sign! You might as well give it a shot, Brad. I know lately you"ve been feeling like you"re never going to fall in love again, but you"ll never know that"s a fact unless you keep dating. Also, and I"m not saying you do this, but don"t expect to be totally swept off...

Did she post any pictures of her actually smiling or having fun? It might just be me (and we are in the land of sharp knees, after all) but I can"t help but think she"s hiding rows of hideous snaggleteeth behind those lips.

I might have missed it, Brad, but did she say anything in response to you telling her that you"d be at the game? I ask because in these parts, the courts do not look kindly on parents jerking the kid around to satisfy their power struggle. In other words, if your ex cancels T-Ball practice...

Kind of moot because you"ve been dumped / are moving on, but I have heard the "I was "basically" raped" defense for cheating before, usually in the context of a married woman trying to explain her pregnancy when her husband had a vasectomy years ago, and every single time it sounded to me like...

Pure poetry. So, Eomer, did you do the paddle-boat thing?

At Dro, bravo, good sir.

Been trying to respond to this since Tuesday but kept getting buried at work. Let"s start with you... why in the name of Khorne were you storing photographs of naked chicks in your phone? Was it for bragging rights with your buddies? Spank material? Something you could one day hold over a...

Guys, it"s pretty obvious that Brad isn"t going to make the first move re: going to court. I think he"s stated before that his main reason for not doing so is his fear that he will lose the time he already has with his son. Now, I"m willing to bet his fear has more to do with the fact that he...

My advice, since this gal has seemed decent: be honest with her and tell her you"d like to break things off. From my read of it, your schedules haven"t worked out and you"re having trouble building any sort of chemistry with her. Keep it simple and honest. Also, man up and break things off...

In California, a long time ago the courts backed out of micromanaging how child support is spent. Since a child here is entitled to live at a level commensurate with his parents, that means you can have absolutely enormous child support awards (think $30,000.00 + month for an idea of what I mean...

Jesus, guys, it"s sole custody. Brad and his ex aren"t God and Satan fighting over little Timmy"s soul.

This is worse than watching a train wreck: You know what else I bet the State of Texas doesn"t like? Single dads committing domestic violence against their former spouses. I know you said you don"t want to talk about it anymore, but you need to at least listen. Whyme"s advice is sound. I...

Fair enough. Lest we turn this into The Chicks Whose Hearts Eomer Broke Thread, I don"t think her conduct is odd in any way. Consider three possibilities for her "non-responsiveness:" One, she"s motivated, single, attractive, without kids or any obvious signs of baggage, and going places. She...

Eomer, I think the reason you?re not balls over head over this girl is because she isn?t a runway model. That?s fine; it?s hard to build an attraction to someone when you place so much value on looks. But I think you need to take an honest step back and look at how well your relationships have...

Didn"t realize you Canucks celebrated that commercial holiday. My advice to you, since you"ve only gone on three dates and things are "laid back," is to just take her out to dinner on Saturday, since Valentine"s falls on a Sunday this year. Do not, under any circumstances, buy her The Package or...

I don"t really see a problem with going the route you"ve discussed, Brad, so long as you make sure it is a two-way street. Please, for the love of all that is good and holy, do not fall into the same trap of paying her bills then accepting her excuses when you ask for more time with your son...

Spoilered this shit in case no one else wants to hear me talk to Brad. While what I have to say is directly related to his situation, I understand there are a quite a number of single parents who frequent this thread, so they may find something useful to their situation. Spoiler Alert, click...

I would suggest you not wait a couple of days to contact her after you deliver the metrosexual bag. That gives her the impression that you had to work up the courage wolf to ask her out. My advice is to make a decision pretty much as soon as you"ve seen her in the flesh as to whether to...

Brad, I won"t be as brutal as some other posters have, but I do believe you are making a very bad mistake in having this broad move in with you. You"ve stated the number one reason she moved in was due to the driving (and, perhaps by extension, the cost of driving). Iirc, you two live in the...

As much as I"d like to see the scarred wasteland of a 45 year old"s tits, there is really no way you"re going to be able to get those pictures without your psycho ex learning about your attempt. That is going to only spell disaster for you. Plus, when your current girlfriend finds out you were...

Careful, she could have an ulterior motive: